Really great guy looking for another really great guy to share really great times with. I love to experience new things and challenge myself. (I'm no Travis Pastrana but I like the occaisional challenge. (And if you get this reference without looking it up I'd be shocked). As hobbies go, I love books, mostly self development, spiritual awareness, and work related material,and I love music; progressive, new age, classical(calm), alternative, really a bit of everything if my ear tunes in to certain things especially really great lyric content. I am very sedentary (sitting) in my work which is most of the time and want to meet a guy who wants to and can inspire his partner to activity and mutual health. I am a very supportive person but am not willing at this stage to take on a partner who wants to be fixed. I have goals where I want mutuality and equilibrium. I have helped others succeed to the point of million$ only to find myself forgotten after the success occurred. I want to meet someone who cares enough about my success as their own. My Values are deep I am not driven by "money" but want security. I have many great qualities to offer and expect that in a partner as well. I also expect to develop the hidden qualities that are not fully developed which need to be nurtured mutually. I LOVE to laugh and a sense of humor is necessary. I am such a diverse personality in that I can adapt very flexibly to many environments and situations. I can be very easy going but the qualities of honesty and trust and clear, open communication are and absolute necessity. Lets talk more later.

A great first date is when the guy greets with a smile with no overly nervous expectation. No agendas and no judgments. The pressure is off because we are both aware that if not a spark, maybe friends. We meet for drinks. Talk is easy and fluid. We are both mutually respectful and attentive of one another. We find humor is a key to the initial barriers coming down and that we have a fair amount in common. We are sharing a bottle of wine which mellows us more to be very relaxed and open to share and we get to genuinly know a bit about each other. And still, at this point we don't know if it is a match but it IS intriguing. We both tend to lean forward to know more about the other and really enjoy relaxing with the mutuality we find we share in values and ideas. We decide to eat somthing and though we thought the date would be over by this time we realize several hours have gone by without realizing it. We decide afterward to go for a walk together to sit outside or we go down to the beach and share the ocean and atmosphere together. Eventually we head back and decide it would be great to get together again soon. We set a time hug and share a respectful kiss and say goodnight back at the restaurant. We can't wait to get together again.