OK GUYS HERE WE GO. IM 5FT AND NO CHANGE 34YR OLD SINGLE PARENT LOOKING FOR A PARTNER TO BUILD THINGS WITH. I LIVE ALONE WITH MY 2 KIDS. I WORK HARD AND DONT PLAY MUCH. IM NOT A MATERIALISTIC TYPE OF FEMALE I MEAN DONT GET ME WRONG I LIKE NICE THINGS BUT I DONT MAKE THAT THE MAIN FOCUS IN MY LIFE. IM NOT LOOKING FOR THE PERFECT GUY BECAUSE ONLY GOD IS PERFECT. I DO LIKE BLACK MEN ONLY,(PLEASE NOT FAT GUYS), KINDA TALL TO REAL TALL MEN THOUGH. SORRY GUY NO MINI ME'S.LOL I JUST WANT SOMEONE WHO CAN RECOGNIZE A REAL WOMAN WHEN HE FINDS HER,NOT BE AFRAID TO GO AFTER HER AND CAN BE MAN ENOUGH TO GIVE HER AND GIVES HER WHAT SHE NEEDS AS WELL AS MENTALLY AND EMOTIONALLY ONCE HE GETS HER AND KNOW HOW TO TREAT HER AND KEEP HER. IM LOOKING FOR SOMEONE WHO HAS THEYRE OWN EVERYTHING. I LIKE TO DO THE SMALL THINGS THAT COUNT LIKE HEAD MASSAGES,(GET YOUR MIND OUT THE GHUTTER)OR CARESSING OR GIVING YOU BATH OR SERVING BREAKFAST IN BED. I DO HAVE A SPONTANEOUS AND FREAKY SIDE TOO (LIKE GIVING YOU HEAD WHILE YOURE DRIVING LOL) BUT THAT HAS TO BROUGHT OUT OF ME AND THATS A RELATIONSHIP FAVOR HELLLOOO,THATS NOT SOMETHING I ALWAYS DO OR TO ANYBODY.I HAVE BEN IN AND OUT OF REALATIONSHIPS BECAUSE MEN FORGET THAT THE SAME WAY YOU GOT THAT A WOMAN, IS THE SAME WAY YOU HAVE TO KEEP HER. I, JUST LIKE A LOT OF PEOPLE HAVE BEEN THROUGH A LOT AND NO IM NOT BITTER FROM IT,I AM STRONGER AND SMARTER. I DO ADMIT IT HAS CHANGED ME ALOT AND SOMETIMES I WONDER IF THERE ARE REALLY ANY GOOD MEN LEFT. I WANT SOMEONE THAT CAN BE MY BESTFRIEND AS WELL AS MY BETTER HALF. I AM WOMAN OF MANY VIRTUES. I LIKE TO PLEASE FIRST AND BE PLEASED LAST. I MAKE SURE A MANS NEEDS ARE MET AND PAY CLOSE ATTENTION TO DETAIL LIKE WHAT GETS HIM GOING OR WHAT HE LIKES PERIOD. I GO OUT OF MY WAY BEYOUND AND OVER THE TOP FOR THAT IMPORTANT PERSON IN MY LIFE AND SOMETIME I PUT THEM BEFORE MY OWN NEEDS. I WANT SECURITY IN A RELATIONSHIP. NOW IM NOT GOING TO PUT MYSELF OUT THERE LIKE IM LIKE IM THIS AND IM THAT. I MAY NOT DO AND HAVE ALOT OF THINGS BUT I AM A HELL OF WOMAN, (I DONT NEED ANYONE TO CONFIRM THAT) AND IM LOOKING FOR THAT HELL OF A MAN. I TRY NOT TO DO THINGS TWICE LIKE BE WITH THE SAME PERSON THAT I KNOW IS NOT GOOD FOR ME OR DO SOMETHING AGAIN WHEN I KNOW THE OUTCOME IS NOT GOING TO BE GOOD. NOW IM NOT PSYCHIC BUT TEND TO READ PEOPLE PRETTY WELL. PEOPLE CHANGE SO QUICKLY FROM WHEN YOU FIRST MET THEM BUT IM PRETTY MUCH THE SAME ALL THE TIME. IF I DO CHANGE ITS IN A GOOD WAY. IF YOU CAN RELATE TO WHAT AND IM SAYING AND WANT TO STEP UP TO THE PLATE THEN BE THAT GUY AND LEAVE ME MESSAGE AND WE WILL GO FROM THERE.

MY FIRST DAY IS MORE LIKE A ICE BREAKER. ITS USUALLY WHEN YOU TALK THE MOST BECAUSE EVERYTHING IS NEW AND BOTH OF US IS CURIOUS ABOUT EACHOTHER SO I USUALLY LIKE TO GO SOME WHERE QUITE SO THAT WE ARE NOT DISTRACTED VERSES GOING TO MOVIE OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT. MAYBE A SMALL RESTAURANT OR FOR LUNCH AND DRINKS OR A QUITE DINNER AT A MORE UP SCALE PLACE.