I've been a single dad for over 7 years and have two kids (17 & 19). Only the 17 year old lives with me, but she is really independent. With them all grown up, it gives me more free time for going out. I'm very easy going and raised to be a gentlemen. If you're looking for a BAD BOY, you can keep looking elsewhere. I've never been a player, so I don't believe in dating multiple women at one time. Even though I listed dating, I would like it to eventually turn to long term. I'm mainly looking in the San Diego area (I live in 92129). I like to play and watch sports, so being active is a must. If you're a tennis player, that's a plus in my books. My biggest item that I'm looking for is a sense of humor.

The main purpose for a first date is to see if there is a connection and a reason for a second date. Going out to a nice bar or coffee house for a drink just to talk and get to know it each other.