First note: Where's the passion gone? Where are the romancers?

My view....I believe there are
three "essential"
compatibility traits, they are:

1. Mental
2. Physical
3. Emotional

we all want to communicate on some level. The first thing we see is appearance. So first is usually physical.

2nd: do they intrigue us mentally? Are they mentally stimulating? Do we click mentally?

3rd is our heart... Some hearts are guarded, some are warn on a sleeve. Our heart is valued and protected no matter who we are, or what our agenda is.

I prefer someone who is active, enjoys various activities and has some culture. I prefer (but not limited to) 32-46 years.

Lets start out with conversation, develop a connection and go from there. Qualities I'm looking for are someone who's out going, as well enjoys relaxing moments, romantic, thoughtful, affectionate, strong, educated, enjoys life, & certainly knows how to treat a lady. As well enjoys affection.

What kind of a relationship you may ask?? Eventually to find a connection that perhaps will develop into something meaningful. Note: I do not do casual, quick fix or intimate encounters. If you are, let's not waist each others time.

Ps. I am from Chicago & wouldn't mind learning country dancing. Any chance there's a cowboy around? : )

Perhaps a casual dinner. or Sporting event. Nothing that includes Coffee shops. I'd like to be in a setting where we can be open to learning more about each other and see if the chemistry is there.