I have been widowed for 7 years. It is hard to describe what kind of woman I am looking for. I met my wife when I was 17 and I had dated quite a few others before that. I just knew we were soulmates and married her when I was 20. We were married 29 years. I have 2 daughters and 2 granddaughters.

I enjoy all outdoor activities, spending time with friends and family, fishing, swimming, 4-wheeling, and vacations. I like living in the country but still like to see a play or eat dinner at a nice restuarant in the city. I like dogs, horses, and all animals. I listen to all kinds of music but prefer classic rock and country.

Ladies, I enjoy these things things but I don't live for them. The people in my life come first and I know how to do things indoors also. I can cook, go to flea markets, museums, movies, and be very romantic with the right woman. ( No Viagra, no porn, no alcohal or drugs needed ). Maybe a good bottle of wine once in a while. I am also a good repair man and I do things right around the house.

I live in the country. The closest town is Maysville, AR. (about 3 miles). My mailing address is Jay, OK.(about 10 miles). So if you live in Fayetteville, Springdale, Bentonville, or Rogers, I am only 45 minutes away. Tulsa and Broken Arrow 75 minutes. Joplin 1 hour. Grand Lake 30 minutes.

Just meet somewhere to get first impressions and get to know each other. I will come to you. Then see if there is a friendship and take it from there. No expectations. Phone calls before meeting allowed. You can make the rules if you want. I am house broke and take orders well. I know the woman is usually right.