| | I put up all my hobbies and interests in the interests line. Here's what I have to tell you.... I am considered (humbley at my end) by men and other woman to be highly sexy, beautiful and hgihly confident. I have yet to have a man not fall in love with me whether I was in love or not. I am sandy blonde, super fit 128 lbs, even muscular, and 5'5". I am only looking for men who are also super fit, and enjoy and consider the gym and eating healthy and researching health part of their singlehood lifestyle....not one they are interested in me teaching them. I enjoy natural everything as much as I can, organics etc. I am wise beyond my years, intelligent and have a very strong head onmy shoulders. I am independant and not interested in being smoothered or expected to be available at a moments notice. I am a single mother by choice and he's older now and I am ready to share that as is my child. I own my own place, and my car and can take much pride in how hard I have worked. No, this does not by any means tell you that I like to pay on a date because I won't. I am old fashioned in many ways and could possibley be happy working part time and the other part time working in the home for my partner's needs. I am bold and excited in personality and generally the life of the party. I dance and go to clubs with all friends and have a few, whoop it up but not by any means do I take men home or am a "bar star" (whatever that means). Im not at all a label like a "cougar" and such but am ok with men 30 years old or older. Depending on lifestyle and maturity level. I KNOW I am the all perfect package and always have been. I KNOW when mister right comes along, we will both be in awe of it and will both be on the same page. We will add up all the small dreams and thoughts we have had individually and marvel at how the power of intention brought us to the same place and how amazing it is to see we almost dreamed each other into life. Am I soft gentle personality, not really...but I am passionate and compassionate, careing, I listen and am skilled in the art of communication. Why no picture...there are 1 in every 5 woman you meet who have cold sores...most also have the other kind, HSV2 which is basically like getting a cold sore in her lower region. out of those 1-5, the other 4 don't know they have it. Unless you ever get a bump, you don't know you ahve it which is why protection is a must no matter what! The sader thing about this is the social stigma. I don't sleep around...but one day, I thoguht I cut myself shaving and the Dr checked it and here I am with HSV2. It didn't even look like a bump....so how many woman have thought it was a shaving nick??? I did. The other sad thing about stigma is that there is no knowledge on it and people talk about herpes like its HIV and its simpley not that big of a deal! I also know from fact that in the time span of 2 years before I found out, I had absolutely no sexual contact (by choice) and I had no symptoms of any sort...so you have no idea when, where or if. I found out and researched it to death! So all of whom think they don't have it....again, you can't know unless you have a breakout and there is no test to find out according to the Dr's but I am told there is one, but they hate doing it as its expensive! Can you beleive that! They want you to not get a herpes test unless you have a bump! But it doesn't mean its not laying dormant in your spine. The spine is where this virus lives. I take anti viral drugs and the chances of it spreading to anyone WITHOUT using protection is 1% per year. I am on here wondering if any sexy, intelligent, unfortunate man with a lot of my interests and mind set would like to get to know each other. You may not know it but there are web sites for dating with STD's but I never knew that for a whole year!!! So maybe you don't either and think your alone. Its astonishing how alone we are not! If you have this, AND you are what I am looking for in a mate..please contact me and let's just chat....I assure privacy at all cost. Meghan |