All I really want is to find a Special Man to share Life with.... Someone I could "fall deeply into his eyes & smile" every time I saw him ~ and love the way we "fit together." ~ It's more of a "sense" I have than "specific" of what I'm looking for in a Mate. I'll just Know when I find him because it's all about the Chemistry.

That Great Combo: physical and mental energy that makes you both feel great when you are together. The man I fall in love with will have a certain "Look" that will capture my attention from the beginning....... and there's nothing like a Great Kiss!!! (A Woman can tell alot about a man by the way he kisses) ~ ~ ~


Sooooo this is the umpteenth time I've revised my profile....but times and feelings change as life goes on and new experiences have been lived thru - so in 3 years+ on POF I have an evolving perspective on what Internet Dating is really all about.....I I think most people just do this for the fun of it and aren't interested in serious relationships...... I HAVE met some Friends on here I've stayed in touch with over the years - always fun to "compare notes" - and now I'm convinced "just friends" or "one-night stands" is mostly what you winde up with!


I put "Long-Term" in the box above,but it all really begins with Attraction and Friendship ....I'm not into meaningless random dates ....obviously common interests and life philosophies have to be a prelude to even bothering to meet. Nobody seems to have enough Time anymore.....long distance relationships don't work out....get real! you have to ask yourself just what are you willing to sacrifice? ~ what are you willing to compromise on?? - Lifestyles have to be merged to have a real love relationship in this life......it's tough for anyone....but more and more the older you get...

Frankly I'm beginning to wonder how anyone gets together these days! It ain't easy!



Struggling with what to put in the "Body-Type" space above over the years I've been on this site.... has always been a problem for me....there is no category for "feminine" or "hot" ~ haha..... "Thin" implies Skinny.... "Athletic" implies Boyish ~ I'm absolutely neither of those and certainly not the other choices! Soooo I would prefer to describe myself in the immortal words of Mitch Ryder & The Detroit Wheels ~ "She's not too skinny, she's not too fat, she's a real Humdinger...{ & I like it like that!"} LOL!!

Oh yeah, and before I forget..... that box above that says what you're Looking For?? ~ concerning what is commonly called the "Other Relationship" ~ Well, I'm just NOT going there, so don't even ask!

This is how I REALLY feel about all of this "Dating" stuff .....

IF you found a Fun Friend of the opposite sex .... wouldn't you want to "Hang Out" & "Do Activities" together??? ~ You might become Intimate... IF you discovered you REALLY LIKED each other! and it COULD work into a "Long-Term Relationship"!!! ~

There's a certain order to Life,Love & Romance and things that really matter take Time! The other new/old thing I remembered the other day, is that - Love is an "intangible" ~A Universal Law.....it cannot be controlled, it has to be given into - then when IT FINDS YOU and It is A Gift!

I'm absolutely "Different" from anyone you've prob'ly ever met before ~ sort of "A Law Unto Myself".... but in a cute & charming way, of course! LOL! ~( which basically means I'm opinionated and I usually know what I'm talking about!) LOL!!

I'm "Experienced" as Hendrix would say ~ and very much like A Good Diamond ~ I'm "Multi-Faceted" ~ I'm full of enough curious & interesting stories to keep you intrigued for hours....and cook you a great meal while you listen.....


I have Books to Write,Songs to Sing & Dances to Dance!Life is short. Time is "Of The Essence" -

Time and Age go hand in hand...... The older you get you begin to realize that our days on earth are numbered.....usually around age 50 .....that's when you realize for certain you will not be getting any younger!!! hahaha.......but perfect chemistry has no boundaries....which is why I keep a large age range on here. But I think thru experience now that 10 years in either direction is about the max. There are Generation Issues that will involve our philosophies and experience....


At Heart I'm really just a Bluejeans-kinda-Girl; prolly too intelligent for my own good; often times too opinionated for the faint of heart....

.... I believe Music & Laughter are Good For The Soul ~ and are some of Life's Greatest Pleasures.... Both help keep us ALL Young In Spirit....to be able of live Life to it's fullest....ya gotta have those!!!

I enjoy being around all ages of "Cool People" who possess a Zest For Life ~ who are REAL & unpretentious. Not Snobbish,Sullen or "Dark" - or Controlling - I esp. appreciate those who are articulate, intelligent,& interesting. A few classic eccentricities will be graciously accepted.....artistic/creative, curious, considerate and affectionate.....

IF You love Rock & Roll, a good movie and snuggling on the couch ~ Candlelit Dinners and "Howling at The Moon" ....Breakfast in bed.... In-depth conversations about "mysterious things"... then we're "on the same page" ~


I can always turn this into "The MoonDiva Philosopical Reveiw" in case the Dating/Relationship/Lover/Mate thingy doesn't work out.....LOL





There is Magic All Around Us! and Don't You Ever Forget It! (If you forget about it cuz the world drags you down and makes you fell like it doesn't exist - then you won't be able to see it anymore)








BTW..... My "Masters Degree" is in "The School of Life"....Gotcha!

I Suppose An IDEAL DATE would be just about anything with someone I was really crazy about....!!!