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(As with all great things, I poached this from someone else!)


Have you ever noticed when you ask someone "How are you?" - all you get is a list of problems??

Tell ME something WONDERFUL! What great thing has happened to you today? Did you wake up? Was your dog happy to see you? Did you child tell you I love you? Everything in life is wonderful - it just depends on how you look at it!

FYI- It sucks that I have to put this first, but in the off chance that you actually READ my profile, please let it be known that:
1. NO Sexterneting.. no - I will not give you my IM until I know you better.
2. Although I DO like younger men, it does not mean I am looking for a friends with benefits - look under Intimate Encounter if that is what you want, but leave me out of it..
3. I value myself, my kids and my family - you should too! This means no - I will not sleep with you on the 1st, 2nd, or 3rd date. I probably won't sleep with you at ALL - and if you HAVE to ask WHEN I will - the answer is NEVER!. (yes - I know this will mean a lot of you delete my profile, but OH WELL! The one that does not will be the person I am looking for! )

IF we email back and forth - talk on the phone about meeting, and then you suddenly are gone, well - STAY gone. I am not here to join in a favorites contest or to feed your ego. I want to meet a real live person, my laptop does not date.

Yes - this is Cat... New name. If I added you as a favorite we were talking before - It is taking forever to find everyone again.. (OR - I just found your profile and would like to talk to you)

My profile gets longer each time I get on here. I think we grow and change each day, so this is just a tiny reflection of who I am. Of course we ONLY put the good stuff... If you want to see my bad side, just send a snarky email. LOL.

Hoping to plan another party soon, so keep an eye out! Christmas, NYE, and Mardi Gras Pics are on my Face Book - email and I will send you a link.

ME~
Sharp witted with a wicked sense of humor, you never know what I will do next! I love to hang out with friends, have a glass of wine and some interesting conversation just as much as I love to go out dancing. Life is a present that you open each day, so treasure each moment and make the best of every situation. I love surprises! No - I'm not really a party animal - I like to get together with friends and family - backyard BBQ's and cooking dinner are a great way to spend a Saturday and then snuggling up with someone special for a good movie that night.

"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes. I'm out of control and at times hard to handle, but if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."
— Marilyn Monroe

Pretty much me.

YOU~
Easy going, laid back, intense, passionate, romantic, kind, crazy. Interests are varied and we each have our own - I don't expect you to watch Desperate Housewives with me and you don't expect me to watch football with you. We enjoy our time apart and treasure our time together. What you DO for a living is not that important as long as you take pride in what you do! (But please, no hit men!)

JUST SO YOU KNOW~
My goal is a long term relationship, but I also realize that takes time to develop. No matter how great the first date goes, it does not mean delete my profile, drop all my friends and never speak to anyone but you again! Time takes time.


ALSO - Regarding FAVORITES.... I use mine as a directory of sorts - IF we do not stay in touch, eventually I will delete you. Having too many makes it hard to find who I am looking for. SO... IF you want to stay on the list - stay in touch.

Much love ~ Cat...

Looking forward to talking to you.

Surprise Me!!!

Every date can be wonderful depending on the person - not the place.

"A clay pot sitting in the sun is nothing more than that. It takes the white heat of the fire to become porcelain."
—Meditations for Women Who Do Too Much