Here goes I am 42, 6’4,” 235lbs and do not need to prove I am a man, however what kind of man is a different story: I am soft spoken, and try to be a gentleman; I find a big heart goes a long way. Music is a passion; I have been a musician for 28 yrs, but only play for my self and close friends. I don’t enjoy the club or bar seen too much, but do enjoy having fun and experiencing new things, even more so with someone I care deeply about.

If you want someone who will cuddle on cold days, and give you that warm and safe feeling were off to a good start. Family is important to me and I keep them close, if you have children, that’s great. Being open and honest is what I look for in a relationship. I’m not a mind reader, so communication is a must.

If you want to talk please have a picture, I like to see who I’m talking too. If I looked at your pic but didn’t say hi, I probably didn’t feel like typing at that moment, so just give me a kick in the butt, I’ll talk.

I don't drink much, but a beer or a quiet cup of coffee works.