**UPDATE** Is it just me or does anyone else find it hilarious that you can carry on good conversation of a period of time with someone only to find out they are absolutely full of crap! Why do women complain about men and their ability to be honest, when in reality the majority of the women on here cannot be honest with themselves to begin with...LOL! I want a good guy....but with so many limitations that he has to fit into a perfect mold, good luck with that! I can't wait until you age or gain a little weight and see how popular you are with the guys you think you deserve to have....LOL!!!

Does it really matter what I write here? It doesn't seem to matter that I'm unique and original with any woman I message, and it doesn't matter. I'm better than average looking, and it doesn't matter. I have a lot of interests listed, and many more that aren't....AND want to expand my interests even still...and it doesn't matter. I know how to and DO treat women with respect, and it doesn't matter. Maybe if I had Brad Pitt looks, or Donald Trumps money it would make a difference? Or maybe if I was one of those jerks you women claim to hate dealing with it would advance my cause?

Unfortunately the bad news for me is I will continue to be me....a nice guy that knows how to treat a woman, and a man who has values and morals.

If you are still reading then please don't take this as having a negative opinion of life, or people for that matter. I simply wish people were a little more real with themselves. You can't catch the big fish with no bait on your hook, even if you are trollying around..;)

But seriously, if you are looking for a quality of relationship rather than a quantity of relationship then I'm your guy. I absolutely know how to treat a woman, and love to spoil my girl!

I don't think the first "date" should really be considered a date. It's an opportunity to see if there is chemistry there. It's also a chance to have conversation to get to know one another a little better. There is already entirely too much pressure placed on two people the first time they meet without trying to figure out what to do for enjoyment. You should be able to enjoy each others company regardless of what you are doing. If not then whatever relationship you may build will constantly need "events" to fulfill your happiness..;)