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drum_sticks : Must I
 
City Mid Michigan
Area United States
Ethnicity Caucasian
Sign Cancer
Height5' 7" (170 cm)

 
Age 43
Gender Man
Body Type Average
Religion Lutheran
Hair Color Mixed Color
Private Images Yes
Chemistry View | Relationship Needs: N/A

 
I am Seeking a Woman Who is Looking for Friends

 
Smoker? No
Do you drink? Socially
Marital Status Divorced
Profession Engineering field
Smarts Some college
 
Do you want children? Does not want children
Do you do drugs? No
Do you have children? All my kids are over 18
Do you have a car? Yes

  Interests
Sports

 About Me
 My self-summary:

I feel it very difficult to accurately describe ones self in writing. I think body language in person or tones of voice are better windows to the soul. At least that’s my opinion. Let’s just put it this way. I can be faithful and loyal to a fault. I almost refuse to believe that some people are dishonest and cruel but when I give my trust I give it in full and it opens the door to being taken advantage of. (I know kind of a feminine mentality).
I am looking to make a few new friends and take it slow then if something develops it would happen naturally, and not with any kind of exaggerated expectations going into a meeting.
I am some what educated but consider myself just moderately well rounded. Perhaps I’m more of a down to Earth type. I believe in the simple pleasures in life and treat others as I would want them to treat me.
Let’s see, as far as how I perceive myself as being handsome. Well honestly, I don't. Others have said it to me but I don’t know about that. After all beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, remember one man's junk is another man's or women’s treasure. LOL...
I am not bald yet. Although I personally feel my hair has reached a more laid back stage of its life. Lazy that is, it seems the energy reserves are expelled.
As far as being a gentleman, Mamma didn’t raise a women beater. Sorry, on a more serious note I perhaps again to a fault have more of an old fashioned ideology about how a woman should be honored, admired and placed on a pedestal. Now for the modern women, here is the downfall part. I tend to lean towards a more traditional household role. Now I have and will help with housework it needs to be done. I am not so stuck in my ways to the point where we can’t share and help each other. I can throw a load of laundry in the washer, load and unload the dishwasher and believe it or not I can operate a vacuum. (I don’t do windows).
Life is to short, we live we learn we laugh and sadly enough sometimes we cry. But if we are truly lucky we will have found love beyond compare and fulfillment during our precious time on Earth.
Well I hope you find this an enjoyable read and if so perhaps I will hear from you. My experience on the whole online dating thing is limited but I feel I'm learning quickly.


What I’m doing with my life:

Working and growing older trying to figure out how to spend more time on vacation (VEGAS) then at work. Any ideas?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food:

Don’t read books.
Anything with Adam Sandler.
AC/DC is my favorite, but I am into almost all types of music I guess you would say eclectic. I'd have to say my two favorite genres are classis rock and country.
Favorite food - Steak

The six things I could never do without:

Faith
Income
Vacations
Nascar
#@*#*! (tryin to keep it clean) I'm human
YOU

I spend a lot of time thinking about:

Wondering what my dogs are thinking.
How to help make you smile.
The opposite sex.
Travel.
Music.

On a typical Friday night I am:

Playing drums.
Paying bills.
Watching movies.

You should message me if:

If ya want to and if we start to develop a FRIENDSHIP first then perhaps I will pass along other info.



Other thoughts:......

Ok take these for what you will, they are just my thoughts:

I think if you’re for me and we get along, it will not matter what you do or don’t have. It will not matter how in or out of shape you are, as long as we are happy with each other.

Now on to faith in God! Please have some if I see you have entered non-religious I WILL question that answer. In my upbringing it was and is clear to me that for a positive relationship sharing similar ideals about faith is extremely important. Marriages fail, that is the way of it now days, but why so many? Perhaps people are struggling with being so different in their inner core it was domed from the get-go. They just don’t see things the same way.

I would rather live my life praising God and when I die find out there is not one -
then live my life like there is no God and when I die find out there is one!


*** PLEASE READ AND UNDERSTAND THE FOLLOWING ***
Read my thoughts about a first date below, and if you cant accept getting to know one another first before we jump into a meeting, then it may not even get that far.




 First Date
  Only after we know each other much better and are BOTH comfortable with meeting. I am open to almost anything you can come up with. But maybe a shorter meet and greet where there are less strings attached and we can take it from there. The meeting could continue on if we decide or we can can end it if awkward.


 
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