I pride myself on being a good father and friend. I like to listen to music in my spare time and will go see a band that I like anytime and anywhere. My short term goal is to improve myself every day and hopefully leave something good behind. If it is worth doing it is worth doing well and right. I always try and do the right thing by others and practice random acts of kindness.

I don't know about this cyber dating thing but we will see how it works won't we...people do eventually meet on here don't they and not just exist in cyber world?

I would prefer someone who doesn't smoke...I am about nine months into not smoking and made a solemn vow to my sons not to smoke anymore...its not easy but its worth it to see them both happy...and I feel a hell of a lot better.

I also would prefer that if you want to contact me and I will answer all messages by the way....have a picture in your profile. I have several in mine....I look like that and if you could smell them smell like that too.

I am a really good guy who likes to have really good fun and doesn't like to date around...I like to date one person, one person at a time and not confuse anyone. I don't have time to date around and if you have read this far neither do you.

I am a really good listener and love to just sit and talk...and I can talk about just about anything even if I don't know what the hell I am talking about.

By the way if you have read this far....I am a really really good kisser...you can count on it.

Somewhere low key and casual so that when you get out of cyber world both people are relaxed and can be themselves. The Loop, Soulard, sidewalk cafes those type of places work really well with me.

If the Rolling Stones are in town a Stones concert but failing that just about anywhere with a good band...I do remember most of the Stones concerts I have been to...just maybe not quite all of them.