Hey there guys, my name is Tessa and I am 26, blue eyes and have medium brown hair. I am a woman who has been blessed with curves and long legs. I have set a few goals for myself such as getting in better shape, going back to school, and spending as much time as i can with my son, Jacob.
I have many likes such as riding horses and reading true crime or mystery novels. Stephen King is one of my favorites. I also enjoy drawing tatoo designs, writing poems and short stories, fishing, camping, hanging with friends and family, playing video games like "reident evil" and just enjoying life to the fullest.
I like to think of myself as a motivational person and dont mind a challenge. I am very open minded and have no problem letting people know how i feel and if that dress makes their ass look fat...lol...
I love rock and roll "i am into most rock from classic rock to bands like system of the down and some alternative" i like to dance to hip hop and usually listen to it when i am cleaning cause i like to dance around the house and just have fun....you can always have fun doing most anything as long as you have some good tunes.
I have two absolutley wonderful children. My daughter, Jaden, is 7 and lives with her dad in arkansas, and my son, jacob, is 6 yrs old and lives with me. If you dont like kids then i am not the one for you.
I am a very strong willed person. I am also open-minded and affectionate. I am a hopeless romantic to a point but am not super needy when it comes to affection even though i love to show my family and friends and whoever i might get with how much i love them and how much they mean to me. When i find Mr. Right I will show him that a woman can love hard and be true. Not all of us women are bad but i do agree with you guys bout one thing...most girls are psyco..lmao...
I was raised in the country but i do like big cities, espically when i want to have a night out on the town. I dont party much but I would like to start going out a little more than i do now which is hardley ever. I dont have to go to a bar and drink to have fun, just being with the people i love or hanging out with friends is ok by me.
I love the outdoors so if your looking for a tomboy type with a bit of lady and a dash of class then you found the right girl. I dont mind getting my hands dirty but i also like to look good getting dirty.
I would rather find a man that is wealthy in love and kindness instead of riches and greed. Money dosent always buy you happiness. I can be a very passionate person but hold your horses boys i am not easy. I value my body and I am not the kind of woman who sleeps around. There are too many STD's out there to be playin russian roulette with my body. Dont get me wrong I can be very romantic to the man i am with but i am only a one man woman. I cant stand cheaters or players or liars and thiefs. I am honest and caring and know how to treat a man. I know how to cook very well and dont mind keeping house.
I am an OU fan even though I live in Stillwater. Go Sooners!!
I also served 5 yrs in the Army and loved every second of it. I am all for our military! I am not a raciest but i served during 9/11 and so i have a hard spot in my heart for anyone that might have fuses attached to their shoes...
I am not into drugs and will have nothing to do with them.
Look, I am a good woman who deserves a good man. I would prefer someone who has some sort of income and their own car.
Look if there is anything else you would like to know bout me feel free to ask. I dont judge people cause i know how it feels and i dont go by first impressions cause that person could have had a bad day ya know. I will never lie to you and never cheat on you, and i hope that i get the same respect in return.
If I am not what you are looking for then i wish you all the best of finding your dream girl. Dont give up. I still have hope in a world where hope is seldom seen. Looking forward to hearing from you. Oh, and if we dont work out then I can never have to many friends.
Have a great day and i wish you men who are reading this all the best in your endeavors. Live long and prosper.

Wow...thats a tough one. As long as its not the typical dinner and a movie deal i will be fine. Why would you want to go out and eat on the first date, you couldnt really talk unless you talked with your mouth full and that is gross, and at a movie you would get shhhed everytime you opened your mouth to speak. It depends on the man i am going on the date with. I would want my date to just be as laid back and easy going as possible with a comfortable surrounding for both of us. I dont really care what we do as long as its a true date and not some attempt to get into my pants. Feel free to be creative or lets do something that shows a little about who you are as a person...plz warn me if its going to be super fancy so i can go buy a dress and some heels....lol....as long as we are both having fun together and are relaxed as much as possible around each other we shouldnt have a problem...By the way, I am old-fashioned and expect my date to come to my door to pick me up and meet my family. Just think you will have to do it sooner or later..lmao