I may have seen you in a coffee shop, bookstore, or the market…and thought to myself…He’s cute…I wonder if he has a girlfriend. You may have even smiled at me, winked, or said hello to me out loud… but I usually get pathetically tongue-tied and skittish when I think a man is attractive, or may be attracted to me, I freeze-up, get all tongue tied and can’t even find a business card to hand you if we are standing in the same line. So I let you walk off without even trying to communicate my interest in you, and you probably think I’m unavailable-stuck-up or just plain S L O W.

I’ve been told I’m cute, funny and sexy by people who know me. I'm articulate and kind, sensuous, and most of the time, pretty smart. I’m active, with tendencies to turn a short drive into a spontaneous weekend road trip. I'm a loyal and loving partner who is always interested in doing new things, and in creating an adventure. I sometimes talk to people on elevators and I will still help people if they are broken down on the side of the road. I'm not afraid of what people might think at me...

Anyhow, I have been off & on POF for a while now... quite honestly I have been discouraged more often than I've been pleased or encouraged with this method of meeting people. I find that people here want to move fast, like maybe because we are.(?)...older, there is somehow less time to get to know each other. I feel like there is "Plenty Of Time" and if there is any chemistry between us as we get to know each other, it just gets more intense with each meeting (at least for me) If we enjoy holding hands while we shop at Home Depot, or you let me hold parts while you fix something... I know we will really enjoy the other physiological & emotional aspects of a relationship together.

I am looking for something special with someone special. I will know it when I see it. Will you? I'm empathetic and VERY perceptive,so heart games and/or serial daters are not my style...I'm looking for someone who wants to get to know me, and likes the way we feel together, enough to take some time in cultivating a toe-tingling, hot, romantic, sweet, realistic relationship that lasts and gets better with time.