okay look it is like this i am deployed alot so my marrage as basicly gone down the drain. i am not yet divorced. to be all honest i will always have some kind of love for her it is just that we better off separated. I am not looking for longterm just getting out of one. i am looking for some one that i just hang out with have a good time. And if we click than we can see where it goes as far as longterm. As for sex i like sex as the next person. just that i am not trying to catch any kind of S.T.D.'s so as much as i would like to get down and dirty i want to know who i am with.I am clean and would like my partner to be the same.I dont want children untill i know that i know that we are gong to be apart of each others life for years and years to come. that way i don't end up like the way i am now as well for the kid. no kid should have to grow up in a broken family.If you already have kids i am okay with that. As for my Ex she will have to be a part of my life just for the simple fact that we have a kid with each other. I will not stop seeing my son for any one.if you can not see that i am with you and not with her.than i don't need to be with a jelous person sorry if you got a problem with that there is the door or in this case the back button!!!!Any thing else you would like to know feel free to ask. i dont have any pictures on here but i do have a web cam.