I am a musician.
I dream of being successful.
Don't talk much about myself, takes away from the joy in gettin to know me.
I do gospel, r&b, and some jazz.
I've got my own car and a truck. I have my own house, and i pay the bills. God is good!
All the above is what i would have left things at if i were not all that serious about finding a relationship. Before i do that though: "LADIES," please know that some of the things you describe on here only make it easier for dumb asses to act as if they are on the same page as you. See, it is simply in a mans nature to conquer. (Sorry no time now for a dictionary i'm bout to be on a roll!) and to MOST men there is NOTHING like new pu$$.!!!
Women have always been taught to believe that their sex is valuable (and it is!) Men are not. In fact if you think about it men look at it as a peverbial "bage of honor" to have slept with many women. I'm not saying thats right or ok, but it is what it is right? Men don't have the same sense of value when it comes to their sex as women do so you must never expect us to be on your level. we may be close and share alot of simularities, but ultimatly most of us aren't there yet.
Now this may seem shallow to you but i like what i like! and what i like is this:
1.) a mature woman who will agree that it is what it is. If she wants sex she isn't ashamed of it. Embrace it!
2.) an attractive woman who isn't afraid to go after what and who she wants and doesn't care what the world says because in the end all that matters is no one has to live your life or live with your choices but you.

i have a sister who had a bf that my mom didn't like. My mom tells her one day to leave him alone and she will get the help she needs to raise her children. My sister listens and leaves her bf.
Now do you think that made a difference? No! It didn't. So, "F" what people say!
I don't care what you do or "who" you do or did before me. I do not own you!
I don't want to own you!
I want to get to know you, and because I'm me, what happens happens. Don't trip!

I'm one of those men that has somewhere to go all the time.
I am a business man.
I'm not the perfect man for you.
Who is?
I am the man who will be a friend if that's what I'm led to do.
I want that special woman. She has to be charming and spunky.
Sexy and down to earth with it, meaning practical.
Caring and nuturing but not overbearing and possessive.
Who is, right?
LOL!
I guess I'm caught up in lookin for that "perfect" someone too! Dumb ASS!
Yup! That's me for saying all this stuff and then be lookin for the same thing as everyone else.

On our first date i'd take you to a nice resterant. Maybe we could go to a movie. Most likely we'd have a little drink (alchol or not!). And i believe you'll have a great time! I've got my own car and a truck. I have my own house, and i pay the bills. God is good!