Hi, I'm 38 single and live in wiltshire. I'm outgoing and laid back and believe in live and let live. Into the usual things but really like going to live gigs although of late work has tended to get in the way of a decent social life! I'm looking for a partner in crime, someone who I can be there for, be their friend as well as a partner. I am looking to have fun but looking for something long term.

Feel free to say Hi and we'll see if we click.

OK so I let a friend read this and she said that it looks like I'm advertising for a mate. Well in a way I am but she's also prodding me to put in the following, aparently I am - reliable, kind hearted, generous, dependable, fun, likes a laugh, kind to small animals and children(!) and I'm looking for similar in a woman. But I don't like to blow my own trumpet.

Sorry about the pictures, I rarely take a serious one and I've blacked out the faces of my mates in case you were wondering!

What would I do for a first date.....tough one, well it would be somewhere relaxed so we can have a chat and get to know each other, some food, some wine (or beer), and take it from there. Or go off the deep end and go and do something manic for the day.