First of all - If you are wondering if I look like my picture, YES I DO! Actually better! IT WAS TAKEN LAST SUMMER 2008. IT HAS NOT BEEN RETOUCHED.
I am not good at writing about myself! But lets see....
I am a very grounded, down to earth type person. Due to my travels I am also open minded. I also exercise almost every day - track and running stairs (bleachers)

I am looking to spend time with someone to form that one deep relationship with that close connection we all wish for and deserve. I would hope that any dates would lead to a wonderful full relationship that have substance and a future and enjoying our time together.

My hobbies would include travel, HD motorcycles, atheletics, astronomy, building things, adventure. I am only a city person as far as fine dining and cultural historical things. I am more of a suburban/country type person enjoying more wide spaces and such.
I am newer to the Jersey area from Wisconsin (short stay) and SoCal (many years). Originally raised in Illinois.
I am not looking for perfection but in our eyes and mind we are perfect for each other.

My music, TV, Theater and movies interests vary. From hard rock to classical, half hour comedies to history/science channels, block buster adventure to simplistic films, opera to Cirque Du Solie.
Things that I have already done: atheletics (gymnastics, semi-pro soccer, softball and volleyball), circus, traveled extensively many parts of the USA and the world, lived on both coasts and the midwest.
I possess my original midwest values, but I am open to many new and different things, never stop learning.
Traits that impress me are people that DO what they say or agree to: straight forward individuals; adventurous spirit but grounded; staying healthy and in reasonable good shape and have Passion!

Traits that do not impress me are: abusers, flakes, users, narrow minded people and cyber people that cannot get away from CPU.
If you are a professional dater please move on. The worst thing anyone can do with this dating thing is waist someones time. I will also add that if you are separated but not divorced yet please move on. I do not feel any explanation is needed.

The first meeting/date would be a shorter/casual thing over coffee/drinks to converse and get to know each other and to see about that wonderful "spark" thing. If we agree on dinnner too ... wonderful!