Hi yall, many thanks for your previous messages and the odd date here and there, but i have now found someone, took some time mind you, around 2 years of being a member on pof, so it can happen as long as folk don't mess around with feelings and such.

i will however stay a member of pof as i do happen to like the forums and generally help folk out with site tech probs or perhaps put a different slant on why they may not be being able to find their way thru the murk that is internet dating.....let alone pof dating.

i will still welcome new mails and a friendly hello from near or far, you might need some support or a handy hint, i'll do my best to put you on right track.

my new lady in my life is absolutely lovely and she is a member of a social group, not a singles or dating group as such, just a gathering of people that do things together as a club, like karting, walks / hikes, cycling, days out like airshows, regattas, bbqs, pub crawls, not been on any as yet, but will be doing soon, an active social life like that is what i have seriously missed for a few years.....you are most welcome to ask about them, theres one based in nottingham, derby and poss sheffield.

cheers Al

hopefully im done with new dates as 2 people have found each other, good luck with your continued searching x