We only get one life to live and it can go by so quickly. It's simple - I am witty, sarcastic, fiercely loyal, honest ( sometimes brutally so ), kind & real. I don't play games -- if that's what you want, go to Best Buy and get yourself a Wii. Told ya I'm sarcastic! I admit I am pretty picky BUT I have a tremendous amount to offer in return. I go with my initial instincts rather than follow any ridiculous dating rules. Who likes rules anyway? I'd really like to smack the chicks who wrote that book! I am sweet, thoughtful & will always be thinking of you because doing so puts a smile on my face & a warm, fuzzy feeling in my heart. I remember dates, birthdays, anniversaries, etc., cause I'm a girl & we're supposed to -- it's in the handbook. I believe in treating others in the manner you wish to be treated cause you get what you give. This isn't rocket science. There's no such thing as a perfect person, but I believe there is the perfect one for each of us - flaws & all. My Grandma said so! I have baggage, hell everyone does. Mine however is carry-on sized, I swear. Our imperfections make us who we are. So if you are a man between the ages of 33 - 45, you live in the NY/NJ metropolitan area, you do not fear commitment & are looking for something real, please say hi. ;-) BTW -- no pic on your ad means you will NOT get a response from me -- I'm not shallow but let's face it, mental & physical attraction are like PB&J -- one without the other just ain't gonna work! Because you actually read this, didn't you?

It doesn't matter where we are as long as the conversation and connection just clicks and doesn't stop - there aren't any long, thumb twiddling awkward moments of silence, no stretching for things to talk about, craving your kiss only a short while into our date and wanting to do it all over again (and again and again)!