I don't want game players. If you are the type to play games and play with my heart, don't bother messaging me. I'm looking for a relationship that has the potential to become serious. I'm looking for a guy who is sensitive, kind, affectionate, honest, romantic, and not afraid to show his feelings to me. I want someone who won't put our relationship in the backseat. I want him to treat our relationship like it means something to him. I won't play both sides of the relationship. I'm not asking for friends and family to be forgotten, I just want/need to feel respected. I want the in person persona to be like to match who you are online, if you're not sure what that means, ask me. If you don't think you are willing to do this don't message me. I want someone who won't feel like i'm holding them back. I'm not asking for flowers, they die too quickly. I want someone from the NY area, preferably, walden, beacon, newburgh, middletown, new windsor, poughkeepsie, with in driving distance. I want someone who isn't afraid to be seen in public with me, therefore, will make plans to spend time together. I want someone who won't take "No" the wrong way and who is alright with waiting. I'm sorry if all of this seems demanding, but I just thought I'd get my wants and needs out there.
I've known a girl, my entire life, She's a dreamer, a believer and an achiever. She doesn't walk away when she's down, she picks herself up, brushes off and tries again. Yeah she cries and releases her fears, but what she doesn't do, is let someone see her tears. She's hoping for a love that will last a life time but right now, friends will do just fine. Getting to know someone is a very hard thing to do. Letting down walls and replacing them with trust is something she knows for her heart is a must. When I was a young girl, I dreamed of seeing this person everyday of my life, being like her, wishing I was her. Growing up as the woman I am today, I realize one thing......I've always been her. I have brown hair and blue eyes, i'm slim/slender, I love to workout and i'm always willing to trying new things. I love meeting new people.I love to sing, so naturally I love any chance I get to do so. Karaoke is one of my favorite pasttimes. I enjoy playing Wii as well.

I am also looking for someone with a strong sense of self, purpose and importance that lends itself to bolstering their personal identity, sense of worth and even social image. Someone who'll make me feel young and alive, and who'll renew my passion for life by opening my eyes to new experiences and opportunities.
Someone who's ready and able to give me freedom and support for my personal or professional goals. Someone who can be vulnerable and unafraid to show kindness and physical affection and emotional connection to me in public.
Someone with strong self-control and patience, who'll consult my feelings and preferences rather than be domineering and controlling.
Someone who'll always strive to make me feel attractive, desirable and loved by giving me undivided attention and a sense of physical security.
Someone strives for longevity by being true to a physically and psychologically healthy lifestyle, which includes taking pride in his appearance and working at being physically attractive to me.

My idea of a first date is simple, because it's the first meeting, it should just be casual this way neither party feels like they have to over do themselves. It's a chance to get to see if there is a connection. Coffee mostlikely or maybe a nice walk together.


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