Alrighty, I am a 31 year old guy who is recovering from difficult times. RECOVERING - it's a good thing. I have a stable job again and I want to find a special someone to spend time with. Naturally I want to spend time with a girl, because girls smell nice and typically have good credit. I am not looking for casual encounters, I just want a girl I can take out, enjoy time with, and hopefully develop a long-term relationship with. I have been losing weight as I work out and I am anxiously looking forward to be able to change my physical description to Athletic again.
I work hard and I take it easy on the weekend. Relaxing watching a DVD and chilling out is great, and going out and doing stuff is fun too. But Chicago winters suck and after shoveling snow for 3-4 hours, it's nice to sit back and do as little as possible. Without pants. I say and do funny things, and most of the time people do not know what I will say next. I am also honest, but not blunt like some people are. I think self-proclaimed blunt people just like hurting the feelings of others. So if you would like to get to know me, send me a message and maybe we can chat on a messenger or something. That way you can get to know each other better, and its usually faster than email correspondence. Hope to hear from you soon!

First date would be pretty much whatever the girl I go out with wants to do. If it is something I don't like, then I guess the date won't happen.