I think I live a different kind of life than other people. I like to travel way too much. Wandering around the planet has been so fun, now I think its time to see if there is a person out there for me. Actually I started looking for her abroad with no luck or maybe I was too young. My friends and family say I am looking in the wrong places. Its been such a journey, and the wisdom of the years has made me understand what i trult want in life.
By learning that physical attraction is only part of the equation, I have found my self more likely to develop a relationship before falling in love. Yes, sex is important but sex is not the most important thing in a relationship. I know for a fact that a persons physical body is NOT what makes them sexy or attractive.
Finding a harmony, intimacy, and friendship when you first meet some one. Most of the time, (in my experiences) sexual harmony and intimacy is something you both work up to. It can take weeks even months before two people are fully in tune.
Often I find myself attracted to the professional intellectual alpha-female or geek girls more and more these days. Tried to date the prom queens and got burned one too many times. Princess types usually are way too narcissistic for my humble yet educated tastes. Tried the earth goddess/hippy type way back in school at Oregon State Univ, and found them a bit too withdrawn from my kind of reality.
I think that professional or Geek/nerd girls are usually a lot more grounded, better conversations, and we can find commonality in many things with out being bored to death. Usually they are always attached, and that leaves me with spades. I hope one is out there and I pray she finds me someday. LOL...
Really, my desire is to meet a great woman who is not only dynamic, intelligent, and flexible, yet humble, respectful, non-materialistic and unafraid of intimacy. If this is you, please don't hesitate to message me. Even if you hit ti on three of these traits, maybe we can talk and uncover the hidden virtues inside your personality? Who knows?
A true partner is one who can compromise and is willing to reach beyond the comfort zones in which the atypical women of the world today chalk up to whats expected of the female gender. Be unconventional and that wins points in my book.
Love to stay fit and although I am an white collar business owner with a graduate degree, I am also an equally balanced blue collar kind of guy at heart. I like to work on my home and car. Culturally, I frequent many musical festivals, where I love the variety and people that these events attract. I attend Burning Man every other year or so, and this years 2009 evolution week was both an amazing and very intimate / spiritual experience for me. It really made me consider the directions and events in my life, how I couldn't be who I am today with out the events and people I have had in my life. For this I am grateful.
You will find I am not jealous nor controlling, I believe that people will either come together or grow apart, and limiting anothers personal / emotional growth is selfish. Gentleman and scholar are terms I often hear.
My family consists of 5 children, Me (the oldest and only boy) and my 4 younger sisters, all of them are very very beautiful and wonderful people.
My parents live in Oregon, where I went to undergrad school for engineering (Beaver).
I love karaoke, singing or listening is always fun. Long-skate-boarding or rollerblading at green lake is cool too. Snow Boarding is a blast with my dozens of friends who love the snow parks.
Here's a secret about me, I am working on writing a book, maybe even a series of books. I really hope to find a girl who is ready to experience a different side of the world.
Ciao.
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