I give everyone a chance until they prove to me that they don't deserve it. Who am I to judge a book by it's cover? I can be funny sometimes, I'm usually the quiet one (until I have something to say), I'm a people watcher, a total romantic, but I LOVE my personal space. I'm looking for someone that can teach me *valuable* things, keep me entertained with intelligent conversation about anything and everything, make me laugh, and realize that we both need our space. We each have our own lives and our life together. I'm a busy girl, you should be busy too, but we would WANT to make time for each other. I'm creative, loving, caring, nurturing, sweet, funny, calm, mature, fun, silly, smart, ambitious, driven. There's so much more, but I'll let you decide what you see in me. This whole thing I've just written sounds totally impersonal.. which is not like me at all.. but it's just really hard to have a meaningful descriptive conversation with a computer screen, isn't it?

Tattoos are hot. Some piercings are hot. Stimulate me intellectually, emotionally and physically and make it constant - chances are I'll stick around. It's not as difficult as I just made it sound. Basically.. teach me things, make me think, don't be afraid to have a debate with me, don't be afraid to disagree because if we end up arguing, make up sex is the best kind. (Don't argue with me ALL the time because that will just piss me off.) Make me laugh and pay attention to me. I'll reciprocate, I promise.

Don't lie - especially about feelings. People grow apart and people become unattracted to one another. It's a part of life. So if we're together and that happens, just freakin let me know. Just don't be an ass about it.

Somewhere along the way, my conversational boundaries cut themselves off, so I'll ask/answer just about anything if I feel like I can trust you with that information.

More later... if you're still reading and haven't thought to yourself "jesus this girl talks too much" then feel free to message me :)

Also, I don't know you, you don't know me so if you do message me, please refrain from calling me "honey" "sweetie" or any other cutesy pet name you can think of. Until we know each other and are in a place where "pet names" are ok, please just call me JL.

Pretty much anything goes - no movies because you can't freakin talk; we'll save that for when we have to have dinner with that couple that just INSISTS on double dating..