Whats goin on POF? It's KJ. I guess I should talk about myself some. I have 2 little boys (3 and 1 years old). They are my reason for doing the things that I do and that is trying to get better each and every day. They live with mom, but I see them almost every weekend. Nothing will EVER come before them so lets make sure that is understood.

I coach HS track and field and I'm thinking about starting a local USATF track club. I teach with a drop-out prevention program for suspended students. I love to write (poetry and some short stories). I go to the gym 3-4 times a week bc I'm trying to get back to the look that I like. Not out of shape, just not the shape I want. lol. I love sports, and doing things just to relax. I travel alot when I have time.

I like a variety of music. Digable Planets, Roots, Black Eyed Peas, Jay-Z, Wayne, Camp Lo, DeAngelo, Fugees, Wu-Tang, T.O.K, Wayne Wonder, Pitbull, Luther, Pharcyde, Beenie Man, Elephant Man, Sean Paul, Nore, Trey Songz, Jagged Edge, and some others from other genres.

I want someone that is versatile. Able to switch it up from professional to playful at the drop of a dime but able to switch right back just as quickly. Someone that has a relationship with GOD (not saying it has to be the best one, but I do have one so she should too). I would love to meet someone that had successfully grown out of the immaturity and is ready for a real relationship. I am looking for someone that I find attractive b/c you have to be attracted to someone to want to seek something out. If that sounds like you, drop me a line and we will see if there is a common interest.

On a first date, I would like to do something that would engage the person I'm with. Dinner, relax with a nice walk after or have a drink or 2. Anything that allows us to talk and get to know each other. If things go well, we can catch a movie, go bowling, or maybe even shoot some pool.