NOTE: I realize many don't read the entire profile, so I'll get some key points in early

PICTURES: If the picture you have up doesn't look like YOU in 2009, Please refrain from contacting me, I'm visual and yes it really matters...LOL

DRAMA: If you have drama with an EX:husband(s), boyfriend(s) or even girlfriend(s). Please refrain from contacting me. I live DRAMA FREE

PERSON PREFERENCE: Interested in females that keeps themselves shape or at least physically active. I.E I'm not interested in females that are obese.

CONNECTION: Just like women do on this site, if I don't reply its nothing personal. I just don't want to waste anyones time if I feel we won't connect. Its not vanity or ego, just I'm not finding what I want off this site.

WHY THE NAME "MrVanity" a teacher gave it to me in high school for having mirrors in my locker, so it just stuck..lol


NOW IF YOUR STILL CONFIDENT AND I HAVEN'T SCARED YOU OFF, THEN LETS CONTINUE SHALL WE =)


I am the man who believes that to share one's unique experience, the gifts of love and blessings in this life, is one of the greatest gifts you can give or receive. I am the man who cherishes the fundamental elements of a healthy, intimate relationship, connection, willingness, romance, tenderness, mutual respect and attentiveness.

In time, as our individual paths bring us together we enjoy stimulating conversation -- current events, history, world events, self-examination, we share concerns, dreams, hopes, desires immediate and global. We delight in the thoughts of planning futures. We are explorers traveling endlessly. It is exotic, educational, fun and inspiring. We encourage each other to move beyond our immediate selves, personal growth is a shared goal. We understand the fear of change but nurture the courage to challenge and rise above it. We accept personal differences, acknowledging the beauty in them.

Physically, I stand 5’10, a muscular 215lbs, with tattoos; I’m blessed with a very strong mind body and spirit. I am attracted to that take care of themselves. But what matters most, what makes this woman that special woman is that look in her eyes and the warmth and ease of her smile that are the echoes of her spirit. There is beauty in the synchronicity that will bring us together.

Ask me.....