HI
I am looking for friendship first .. I want a friend and eventually a lover and someone who who I can confide in and he me. Eventually, I'm looking for a comitment and forever with that person I can not live without. If you don't have time to meet me after sending a few emails back and forth, we probably won't be a good match. I want someone who finds the time to be with the woman he wants.

A little about me: I live in beautiful wine country , Temecula. I am not high maintenance or materialistic, however I do enjoy the nicer things in life. I am a giving person and I do a lot for my family and friends. I enjoy going on weekend trips, dining out and searching for great restaurants. I love trying new foods and some of my favorites are: Sushi, Mexican, Italian and Seafood . I enjoy reading , however probably not the types that most men would prefer :) I also love the river and really any body of water. I have travelled some, Cabo, Hawaii, Massachusetts, AZ, San Fransico , Las Vegas and such, but I have yet to travel to places that I've only dreamed of. I want to learn to horse back ride so if you like horses or have horses that will be a plus! If not, maybe we can learn to ride together. I also love to entertain in my home whether it be a barbecue and swimming, a Christmas or Halloween party with family and friends. What I love most of all is spending time with my kids, whatever we may be doing. I have always worked 9-11 hours a day and taken care of myself and my family financially. I am very independent, intelligent, talkative and somewhat outspoken. With me you will have your best friend, a kind heart, an open ear and someone who will love you and always support you and be there for you always. I beleive in honesty and being upfront and real! I have about 40 pounds to lose, but I'm on the right track.

What I am looking for : I want someone who wakes up in the morning full of life and excitement for the day and is a planner and a go getter.I am looking for a man that has a mind for himself. I want someone that has initiative and drive and is successful in his work and he is financially stable. Someone who takes charge of his life and doesn't expect his partner to make all decisions or take care of him financially. I hope to meet someone that I look up to and admire. He will want to be with me and make time to see me even when it seems there is too much going on. I want a man that is intelligent and who plans for his future. I am interested in meeting someone who likes outdoor fun and who wants to show me things that he likes because I'm looking for new and exciting things to learn and discover. Please be honest as that is one quality I can't live without.!

If you like my profile and would like to contact me, please have something to say about why you contacted me and what you liked in my profile because I love a man that has something to say. :)

I would like for my date to be spontaneous and creative when deciding where and what we will do for our 1st date. Hopefully we will have really started to get aquainted through some emails and chatting to plan something fun and exciting and different or something we both enjoy.