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OK let's save a lot of you time..............I smoke p*t so I'm sure most of you are out.

Now that we have that out of the way some more about me. I enjoy cooking and always fantasize about having my own restaurant. I do love my job so I doubt the fantasy will come true, but isn't that the way fantasies usually work? I have managed to work my way to a very secure position within my company(I may smoke pot but I have an excellent work ethic and always try to better myself).

Wow..........would you believe I have the same interests as 90% of all the women on here. I like to hang out with friends, enjoy outdoor activities, and family means a lot to me. I am a little sarcastic and like to joke around at times, so if you have no sense of humor again I'll save you some time.

OK for the 3 people they may still be reading........I believe I could be labeled as a caring person, if I can help a person out in anyway I usually do( I've gone as far as paying for a strangers groceries in front of me just so they would not have to put anything back). Of course I could list more examples, but you can just trust me. I like to be on time. It used to bother me bad if I were late, but I have gotten over it because sometimes it is out of my hands and I realize the world MIGHT not end. I seem to be a person that reminds people of someone else they know, I get that a lot.

I have 3 kids who I see and cook for every weekday, and as of now they stay with me every other weekend. Once I move a little closer I will split equal time, I'm just a little out of the way for it to work out right now. My ex and I get along very well, most people are shocked when we tell them (even our family). What's the point in fighting, it benefits no one and only damages the kids. So if you would be worried about drama there is none here, as a matter of fact we probably get along better.

As far as going out goes...........I've never really been into just going to a bar, I do however like to go where there is a DJ or live band that plays music you can dance to. Rarely do I go out to a bar or a club but if I do it usually somewhere you can dance. I do enjoy going to concerts and sporting events just like most people.

Music.........I listen to Rap and R&B mostly but I do like a wide variety (very few country songs). I don't listen to local radio because I have Sirius and I am usually listening to Howard Stern or Bubba. Movies..........I prefer comedies or super hero flicks. I'm emotional and can be caught with a tear if I watch any touching movies.

I have lived all over including 2 foreign countries because my father was in the military. I was in the military myself for a brief moment. In my life I've had to go through many changes, and of course that has made me the person I am today. I can blend into most situations from a Black Tie Affair to hanging in the woods. I can hold an intelligent conversation or act a fool with the best.

If any of this is interesting to you ask me some questions I won't bite unless you ask me to.

I would say more of a first meeting not DATE. A happy hour where we would could have a drink and see if there is any common interest to make a first DATE.