It is very hard to describe yourself.
I asked my men and women friends to do so for me.
Here is the feedback:
Smart, independent, classy, beautiful, caring, giving, friendly, witty, huge heart (gives money to homeless and charities), compassionate, loyal, honest, loving, fun, wonderful mom, hard worker, great listener, confident, considerate, generous, joyous, passionate (thus reflected in my tattoo), sexy, grounded, motivated, elegant, and articulate.
My failings: Care too much, reckless, romantic, can be judgmental at times.

I love life and I really want a good man to share it with.
I believe in romance.
I want a Knight in Shining Armor but am realistic enough to know there may be some dents in the armor.
I love romance.
I believe in soul mates. I think people are brought into our lives for specific reasons.
I want a man who knows himself and accepts himself.
I have baggage as everyone does, but I check it in. I do not carry it around with me.
I love my job and I work to live!
I have always embraced life and tried new experiences.
I am seeking a man who loves to try anything once before ruling it out.
I want a partner and a friend.
I want a guy who opens doors and is nice to waitresses and children.
Must love dogs!! I have a big five year old doberman!!!
I am not into serial dating.
I live a full life and have lots of friends.
I am not desperate but hopelessly romantic.

By the way....I work for a singles social activities club. I am very good at screening people as that is my job....so I have heard all the lines and BS.
Don't contact me if you are a player, looking for a quick roll in the hay or a serial dater.
And.....to answer the question you all are curious about...I DON"T date members!
I am looking for someone to settle down with and spend the rest of my life with.

A walk in the sun or rain. A coffee at a coffeehouse. A lunch on the water.