I am a good woman with a lot of positive things in my life. I have 2 teen age children, a career, and can provide for myself financially. I am looking for that 1 in a million type of man that will allow me to be myself and accept me as I am. I am a curvy girl and if you don't like that, then I am ok with you not trying to get to know me. I love my curves and am confident with myself. I like a man that knows how to treat a lady like a lady and who can be sweet, romantic, open, honest, and make me laugh. I like a man that has something going for himself, even if it isn't the best job or the best car...as long as you are getting up every day and trying to make something happen I can work with that. I like a man that can communicate and doesn't close himself off when things are on his mind. I can deal with the truth and maybe be a shoulder to lean on if you let me. I don't need a lot of time from a man, but the time I get has to be quality time.


Keep in mind, men and women think, feel, and need different things. You have to be able to compromise and try to see where the other person is coming from and read between the lines. Sometimes what is said, isn't what was meant. If you like someone and want them in your life as a friend, lover, or more then look at the big picture and see what you could be doing to make them feel special, wanted, needed, and heard. Women are emotionally motivated while men are sexually motivated. No woman wants to feel ignored or invisible, just like no man wants to feel smothered or rushed. Rather then react to the negative thoughts when people make mistakes, try to see where the other person is coming from and pull the positive from it. Makes things easier getting to know each other if both people are willing to open up and be honest and try to see things from the other persons perspective. It's so easy to give up and push people away over small things. No one is perfect and we all have insecurities. The key is communication cause no one can read minds...most people don't realize they made a mistake until the phone stops ringing and the texts aren't returned...if you won't tell them what they have done wrong then how can they learn from it and not make that same mistake twice? Good women are hard to come by...be willing to take a 2nd look...you never know, if you do you might just find a diamond in a sea of rhinestones.

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On a first date I think simple and no stress is best. Maybe go shoot some pool. Something casual to break the ice.