How does one go about describing ones self? It has taken me a life time to get to be me and yet I am to tell you who that is in this little space.. I am your average girl next door or maybe the one at the drive thru or maybe the one checking you out at the store or checking you in at your drs. office... yet I am different from all of them or any other girl you have ever meet. I feel and am told often that I am a nice person with a since of humor. I am slow to anger and fast to forgive, a lover not a fighter.. If you are my family or friend I would be willing to die for you and I will defend you to my death if need be. I am not a clinging vine, but I love to be with the one I love and am happy doing what ever makes them happy, as I love life and all it has to offer. I like trying and doing new things and I am just as happy to stay home and do nothing at all. Happiness is inside us, all we have to do is let it out.. and life is far to short to not be happy.. I am looking for someone who wants a friend, a lover and mate for the rest of our lives.. I love to hold hands, cuddle, kiss, hug and make love with the man I love.. I like sex, but I love love.. I would rather have love with out sex then sex with out love.. If any of this makes since to you maybe you are the one I am looking for..
I am a very loving person and I am looking for the same. Someone who is faithful and true. I would like to find someone who I can love and will love me for the rest of our lives. But for right now I am staying here in Modesto, because of my family. I have made a promise to them and I will keep that promise. So I need someone who is here or willing to move here for now at least.

I think a good first meeting would be to meet at a coffee shop or small cafe or Starbucks/McDonalds where ever you would like and get some tea, coffee or soda and set and visit and get to know each other a little then go from there.
Even going for a walk in a park would be good, just so we can get a feel for each other and see if there is any intrest there.