Hi, my name is John, I really have no hobbies unless home remodeling is considered one, my goal in life is to be the best person I can be and to treat others as they treat me, in otherwords, treat me good and I will try to treat you better, treat me bad and I will treat you worse, people really can't exspect anything diffrent, I am a steelworker, I was involved in the New Lucas Oil Stadium, I consider myself unique because I am one of the very few men left who doesn,t cheat or lie to a lady, there is a difference between a lady and a woman. I don't date women who's weight does not fit with their height, I am 45 and a little under weight myself, but it is the same as it was in high school, I have hazel eyes, wear glasses or contacts, hair to my butt, just a hippy, but I have standards and morals, and I own my own home and drive a nice truck, therefore I am not a bum, I work for a living. I am looking for a long haired brunette because I haven't had very good luck with the others, but will consider it, would prefer a lady with either no children or grown ones, but would consider this also, not looking for a lady that lets her children control her life, I understand they come first, that they have to be protected and cared for, I do not tolerate child abuse or someone who hurts the elderly, I WILL defend them. I am not a violent person in nature unless I am provoked. I am the type of person who cannot find a medium, it is either one end of the spectrum or the other, so, I can date just for sex, or I can have a serious relationship, I want the serious one though. My music preference is obvious, 70's rock and 80's glamour bands, some country since I have lived half of my life in the country and half in the city. Not really into sports or sporting events. I am the real deal ladies, have a nice day. OH YEAH! If you ladies with the photos of you either on a bed or next to one not looking for sex, then why that type of photo, leads a guy to believe things. Also I do not ride a bike.

On a first date I would either come to your home or meet in a public place, I would bring you flowers, open doors, probably say yes and no maam, at least try to treat you with the utmost respect. We could go to dinner, then a movie or someplace to shoot pool, or bowling, or even back to one of our places to sit and talk or watch movies. Could possibly go out of town to a small town and hit a little out of the way place with a live band.