I've had to re-do my profile a few times since I've signed up on this site. The few dates I have been on, I am told I am a gentleman. I'll take that to mean I am realistic in my intentions. I don't project an image of moving too quickly or after the physical. I want to get to know you.
I'd prefer letting a things work towards a meaningful connection. I'm honest, emotionally secure with myself. I have no interest in games or lies or anything other than being myself.
That said, I am 43 and I would like to meet someone for the long term. Serial dating does not appeal to me so I have been putting myself out there more than usual, hoping for a click. I'd like to think if I give you a chance, you will give me a chance. It is amazing how different people are than we think they will be when looking at an online profile.
I have a lot to offer in terms of personality. My sense of humor is all there. You'll just have to trust me on that.
I have varied interests, enjoy exploring the outdoors and finding great music to go see live is a passion of mine these days. I also go to the gym a lot these days, staying fit.
I'm a good conversationalist, especially when there are mutual interests. If we don't seem to have any, I will fix that and find things for us to do such as festivals, museums, something that suits the weather, indoor or outdoors. Anything is possible.
I am currently employed but my world is not driven by money, status, or other people's expectations.
Qualities in a woman I find appealing include substance, intelligence and sincerity. I do not have pre-conceived ideas about getting to know someone. Someone’s heart and personality intrigue me more than their outward appearance.
Ultimately, it's chemistry that will determine if two people get along, enjoy conversation with each other and can repeat the process ongoing. It’s not our physical stats or what we think we want from a partner that will make something click. Life is all about taking the right sort of chances on the unexpected.
I really do wear corduroy (sports coats, not pants
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How about a casual meal and walk instead of the usual coffee date. Date two will be more interesting since I will have figured out your likes.
