Honest, affectionate, caring, open, communicative, low maintenance, practical, very funny, tend to speak my mind. I am patient and emotionally stable, my pictures are all recent and I update them as time goes by. I don't believe in misrepresenting myself and don't want to be embarrassed when we meet. I have my own "horror date stories" to tell and don't want men to tell such stories about me LOL.

I am looking for someone mature, cultured, literate and articulate, not too religious, communicative and very compassionate, non-judgmental, gentle soul with a good heart, a good listener, who would love me when he isn't horny and would be nice to grow old with. Naturally, he would have to be legally and emotionally available. Serial daters and people who's been on dating sites for years should move on to the next profile -- I am probably not "the one" for you either, because most likely nobody is.

Please let's not waste each others time if you hate or are allergic to cats or can't stand classical music. On my end I can't stand heavy metal, rap or punk rock (in fact, anything loud) or sport and politic fanatics, actually any obsessive fanatics scare me. Fanaticism and healthy relationship are mutually exclusive.

Also, I won't date someone much younger then me (10+ years) or long distance (over an hour drive from me usually doesn't work).

We can discuss everything else.
If after reading this you think I am a ****... of course it's your prerogative to think whatever you want. In fact, I am soft, warm, sweet and safe as a cat's belly and if stroked right I purr too and there won't be better place to forget yourself in the world :-)... But just like a cat won't let everyone near her soft belly, if I am stroked against my liking, you'd think I might snap and scratch? Not really. Just like a cat, I might not even bother. I simply free myself from under that unneeded touch and walk away.
You'd have to know those amazing animals to appreciate the allegory.

It doesn't have to be a "candle lit" dinner on a beach. I believe no candles in the world can improve a date with the wrong person, but sitting up to the neck in mud with the right one can feel great... Any place allowing a quiet conversation is fine with me.