I am a single mom with 2 kids, ages 18 and 13. I enjoy being outdoors, the beach, going for walks etc. I love weekend get aways. I also really enjoy harley rides, would love to own my own someday. I prefer to keep my life simple, would rather be in shorts and flip flops, but do have the little "black dress and heels" tucked away in my closet. My lifestyle is pretty laid back, I try not to sweat the small stuff and I am turned off with drama!!!! Life is short and I plan on enjoying every bit of it....Honesty and "down to earth" are important values to me in a relationship. I am looking for the guy who has heart and soul, not homes and cars.!The type of guy who can make me feel like a queen, just by the look in his eyes when he see's me, not by the kind of car he picks me up in!! I am not a possessive, "drama queen" who needs to know your every move, nor do I want someone who possesses those traits. I am very comfortable with who I am, carry no baggage and hold no grudges.I prefer men who can leave the past in the past, learn from their mistakes (which we all have made) and move on with a positive, optimistic attitude. I am lucky enough to have a lot of friends, both male and female, and I am not looking for just another "friend". I have been single for several years and am ready to find the right person for a meaningful, lasting relationship!! I like a guy who enjoys a good laugh now and again..the kind of laugh that hurts your belly after a while.!! Of course, I take life seriously, when I have to, but being too serious, too often, is just not good for the soul.!! "Laughter really is the best medicine".

My ideal first date would be to meet somewhere, and just take a walk together. A kind of "get to know each other walk". Like most people, I don't like first dates...they tend to feel like a job interview, so keeping it simple would help break the ice and hopefully make it more comfortable for both of us!!!!