Is it just me or is it especially difficult to meet prospects when you're gay? At least, when you're not spending all your time in the official gay scene anyways. I mean there's such a limited pool of people to choose from and most of the men I meet in my day to day life are straight and therefore largely useless for anything more than eye candy (from a dating perspective anyways). But enough complaining. I'm looking for someone to hang out and have a good time with. I'd like to find someone I can be real with. I am trying to meet new people and see where it might lead. Ultimately I am looking for a stable relationship, but I don't want to put pressure on making every chat or meet up into something more than it needs to be. I pretty much like to go with the flow and see what might happen. Please note: I am attracted to guys that are 35 and under.

Nothing high maintenance. It's always nice to enjoy a drink on a patio and talk.