Describe myself...hmmmm...I am 45, 6'4. 210, and I am believe that I am extremely responsible, have a great wit, and hopefully a decent intelligence. I am athletic, like to have fun, social, and have lived in Raleigh over 37 yrs.!~I am seeking to find a lady to laugh and love, live, and learn as a team in life. Someone warm and sexy, loving, funny, and family oriented.

Isn't life just about LOVE, and family??

Sure, there are wonderful things such as romance, and parties, and friends, and social events...but the older I get, I just want love and family.

WOW~, IF I could find that special lady...life would be more fulfilling....being single can be fun at times, but it is getting OLD!! I do have alot to be thankful for, however, and will NEVER settle.

I WANT someone cool!~~Here is the deal...I never married, because I had two major heartbreaks in my late 20's, early 30's. I spent 7 yrs on two different relationships trying to make it work.

Then, I had many other chances for long term, but turned down those opportunities...looking back, they just did not have the spark I wanted. I could have been married a dozen times, but they were "too nice". I guess I was bored.

No kids? well, it hasn't worked out, buy I am a proud uncle. Every opportunity was a lesson learned, and all did not work out for differing reasons.

Most women want it ALL, eventually, even though they say they do not...I hate pressure, I like a soulmate...I do believe in that!

I am looking for something new now. Most women on here are just too conservative...they cant play like I want~! I need a woman with an edge~ Are you like that? I have decided to be ME, before I get too old...maybe it is a mid life crisis...but it is what it is!

I do want someone sensual and hot, fun, and very classy~ I like a lady who likes to look, dress and smell like a lady. I will never apologize for what i seek and for being me!! I am also seeking someone outgoing and social, but at the same time very DOMESTIC, (meaning, they enjoy the quiet peace of a good homelife) and want to settle down and enjoy homelife together. I would like to meet someone from here, as I have before and dated for one year.

My work keeps me pretty busy. I am a straight shooter, and try to always be very honest. I was in a relationship for a year, but recently single again. I have tried other sites, and met a few nice women, BUT, I do want someone in touch with their sensuality also, so give me a shout IF you wish! I do not have children, but do love kids. My ideal mate may or may not have kids. It depends on our love, not the children! I have a 7yr. old nephew that is something else! And my sister has a new born son as well! I love sports, travel, good restaurants, movies, family, history and museums.


Are you fun?
Are you spontaneous?
Are you hot?

If so drop me an email!
Please don't be shy! Life is too short! ;) AND REMEMBER.."Those that mind don't matter...and those that matter, don't mind!." DR. SEUSS~

HAVE FUN!! LOL...That definition always depends on my partner, and her interests. So here it goes...."Women are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top. Men don't want to reach for the good ones, so they keep picking THE ones off the bottom because the are afraid of falling and getting hurt.The apples at the top of the tree think there is something wrong with them cause they never get picked. In reality when you do pick an apple from the top they are amazing. You just have to take that chance at falling."