I truly am a nice guy, mild mannered and enjoy relaxing and tv when the time is right. I love wildlife, photography and travelling. I try to eat right but do tend to fall off the wagon for a few days and binge on all the wrong foods! I enjoy excercise a couple times a week at the gym. I love a good movie or a show as well as an art exhibit. I enjoy to write when I have time and would love to publish a book one day. I love to laugh and enjoy making others laugh as well. I consider myself a bit of a clown that knows when to be serious. I enjoy music, in fact some would say I am addicted to it but that is just an opinion...LOL. I listen to "almost" anything as long as I can understand what is being said! But that is my surface, care to scratch it? Let me clarify the children part of this site....I have kids, they do not live with me and not against women who have them...I just am not sure about creating anymore?
*UPDATE*
My 18 year old son just moved here and is staying with me for a while until he gets things going.
I will say something though for all you women looking for Brad Pitt... I am not Brad Pitt and I am guessing you are not Angelina Jolie so give up already thinking you are! I am more like John Candy or James Belushi. Not the size of John candy but that is my personality. Do I have a six pack? No! Do you? I want a real woman with curves and some meat on her bones. I want to feel I am with a woman and not a bag of antlers! I am a smart ass and sarcastic as well as a genuine lover and willing to do whatever it takes for love and romance. So, if you are a fake ass girl who is on here for the attention, piss off! I want love and life....

A first date should be something relaxed without too much pressure on either person. A dinner date with casual conversation and learning some things about each other would be nice. Maybe a walk afterwards or drinks at a lounge...quiet firsts...