Hey; I’m probably not here for the same reasons as you. I’m here because I believe the bar scene is the wrong place to meet someone if your interested in a committed relationship. Don’t get me wrong, I love doing the club “thing” but only with my “partner”,,,oh ya,,,and best friend. I need physical attraction as well do you. Don’t even think of telling me that you like me for who I am and that you don’t care about my looks because you would then be in denial. I’m an in shape “country boy” who loves photography, my dog, guinea pigs and in general,,,all animals. Bon fires are high on my list as well as intellectual conversation combined with a night of heated passion. I’m “non jealous”, honest to a point of failure, and I am a “communicator! Empathy, compromise and sincerity are key. So I guess you know about now wether or not you are going to reply. No problem,,, I’m an optimist and I know that someone with the mind and looks that intrigue me will present them self to me so we can continue together to grow old and to be together in a blissful sort of “love”. Thanks for taking the time. There is an amazing amount of impersonal adds out there and I do appreciate the time that you took to read this one,,,,a needle in a hay stack.

Mid to late August when my gardens are at there peak. You come over here and we sit under the gazebo and go over what we have already learned from one another. I'm brutally honest, you laugh at my stupid jokes and I let you relax with your drink to wander around the garden with the cats following you around while I'm continuing with "the dinner"! Mmmmmmm Smoked pork tenderloin, home made scalloped potatoes, veggies from the garden that you selected with a raspberry pie from the garden as well. you give me a hand with the bonfire, to get it ready. we talk, and the tree frogs and crickets break into song as the daylight fades. I light the candles and lanterns around the gazebo and water fall !!! we suddenly feel an empathetic "click" comfortable, relaxed! I light the bon fire!!! the canopy of trees lights up and the wood starts to crackle. I set up your spot by the fire and start to serve your dinner. Like in a V.I.P. restaurant, you would be serviced and waited on and you would drift into "contentment". After your pie with peach ice cream we would cuddle for warmth and share some wants, needs, and aspirations in front of the now dying down bed of coals; your tired, I'm concerned about your drive home and I think you should Leave. I walk you to your car, we gaze at each other and remember the "click", I lean forward, you close your eyes and I gently kiss the corner of your mouth slowly and feel the warmth and the "connection". I squeeze your hands in mine and say, "good night".

scenario #2

,,,,,I gently kiss the corner of your mouth,,, I feel the warmth the softness the "spark"! My tongue slowly probes your lips,, the warmth,,,, the softness!!
Instantly we stop!, and realize, perhaps I'm holding you a touch too tightly,,you can feel my excitement “growing”. I'm suddenly embarrassed but your quick reassuring gaze ensures me that you now know there was a "spark" tonight.
A gentle tug lets me know that,,, we should go back to the patio! Under the Gazebo among the plants. You sit, I kneel. I tell you how I feel and you will sense the honesty, and the real meaning of "Connection"!
My god! Nice! I realize, I notice,, your skirt,,, your thighs,,,,,, Too much!,,, I'll take a chance and rest my hand,,,, as in unison, your head falls back,, Mmmm,,, now I'm sure! Our insecurities and shyness’s are drifting away, I explore your sensitivities, stroke, touch, Mmmm so warm! I know I want to taste you but how!! where do I go from here??? Still so nervous! As if you read my mind, you put your hand on mine, and with a gentle squeeze of approval, you guide me. Just like a sudden shot of some drug, my mind goes numb in Lue of the exotic touch of perfection. What?! you push me back so hard!,,, was it me? What did I do? change of heart? As in a panic, you suddenly wanted some freedom. You pull down and throw away the last barrier to your liberty and with a relaxed sigh; you passionately enjoy the night air caressing that which you freed. To my de