i just moved back to SF. i spent the last 4 years working and saving up money in COLD boston so that i could go back into mini-retirement.

hrm.. this whole online dating thing is so different than the old RL equivalent. instead of getting a gut feeling about who a person is and what they're like by directly seeing the person interact with you and the world around, one is forced to try and get inside their head by reading their words.

well in that vein, welcome to my head!

i like to think that i'm truly special; not just "special" in that way we were brought up to believe that everyone is special. i'm a true lesbian trapped in a man's body. i'm a free spirit who has never and will never conform to anybody else's rules. i have morals and care deeply about others, but only on my own terms. i'm honest, often to a fault. if there is something you think can't be told to your significant other, you're with the wrong person.

soo... what am i looking for? well.. like the headlines says, i want a partner in crime. no, i don't consider myself a real criminal, but i like to have fun! i want somebody to have fun with. i want somebody that either wants to ride their own motorcycle or get on the back of my motorcycle and go FAST with me. i want somebody that wants to go gallivanting around the world looking for trouble (in the good sense of the word). i want somebody who isn't afraid of anything and who can trust me enough to not be jealous.

which brings me to the whole sex thing... i understand that 90% of those reading this are stuck in a classical view of sex where sex and love are inseparable. i'm not. and i'm looking for somebody from that remaining 10%. i'm very sexual and one of the things i enjoy most in life is sharing beautiful intimate experiences with others. in my ideal future, i have one partner who i'm committed to, but the two of us share our love with others and, somewhat paradoxically, our love grows stronger by sharing it. and i don't mean we have that stereotypical open relationship that we hear about which never works where we both date others on the side because we aren't satisfied with each other. i mean we have what i like to think of as an ajar relationship. we occasionally go out together and hunt for playmates that we play with together. you're likely bisexual. i'm trisexual... i'll try anything! just kidding.. unfortunately, guys don't turn me on, but i'm not homophobic and not afraid to share the bed with a man if that's what you're in the mood for :)

anyway, if this doesn't scare you away, i want to hear from you! if it does, no hard feelings. good luck finding what YOU're looking for :)

namaste

ps: just because i live to party doesn't mean that's the only thing i'm good at. i haven't seen a sunday NYT crossword that has stumped me in over a decade, i graduated MIT in three years, i'm a successful businessman, etc. i know what you're thinking... all this and modesty, too? how can i be so lucky? :P it is ungentlemanly to brag, but with all these fish in this sea, how else am i supposed to get you to start a dialog with me??

this isn't about me. this is about us. the topic is open for discussion. i love good food, good movies, adventure, and anything else that tickles the senses or feeds the mind!