I am not your usual type of guy. I am seeking someone who knows how scary it is to truly be intimate with another: To be prepared to reveal all of who we are, both to ourselves and then to others. This, in my experience, is not easy. It takes self-awareness, and a willingness to overcome conditioning, our own fears, co-dependence and the judgment of others to fully be ourselves.
My experience is that this kind of intimacy creates the most joyful, open, honest, exiting and alive types of relationships.
I seek someone who like me has done a lot of personal growth/consciousness/spiritual work, and is ready and willing to really go deep.
I hope i haven't come across as too serious...i love to laugh (cliche i know, but true) and see being playful, fun and not always taking life too seriously as vital.
Having said all that, i can be very conventional in many ways, love hiking and being out in nature, enjoy nights out on the town, movies, books, play soccer. I love to travel, and especially love scuba diving.
And i can be very unconventional, such as being a little woo-woo from time to time (psychic experiences, past lives, synchronicity..that kind of thing).
For me, relationship is about providing mirrors for each other, supporting and inspiring each other to be the most complete and alive version of ourselves that we can.
I am passionate, open, fun, playful, adventurous and love exploring all that this wonderful, amazing and beautiful world has to offer.

I can't really say what my ideal first date would be, because it would depend so much on the energy of who i was on the date with. For me, when two people meet, each person brings their own energy to the encounter, and then the meeting of these two energies creates an unique dynamic of its own.
Feeling into that dynamic, and following where the energy of that dynamic wants to take us, and allowing it to help us enfold and reveal ourselves to each other......now, that would be a perfect 1st date for me.