I'd like a man to have fun with, laugh, flirt, enjoy silence, or talking- about books or films we've seen, serious things, silly things, his passions, his interests and mine, about this strange, funny and fascinating world we're in. I'd like time to become friends, discover shared interests, and ways we like to have fun together, talk about aspirations etc, hopefully before succumbing to trust and lust. Heck Ive got plenty of time, I'm only half way through my life!

Someone to relax with, dance with, maybe we can cook up some invented recipes..some rosemary (sacred herb of friendship, said to promote fidelity in friendship and love), tomatos, marjoram,(for happiness), garlic (we'll be vampire free) and linguini..hmmmm

I'd like to have a few more careers in my life, like to live til I'm 116...so much to do, and write about!

A saying I like is , "Wit is the denial of suffering." Also "love will enter cloaked in Friendship." and I liked the Economics expert's quote "You never know who's swimming nude til the tide goes out."

I'm quite creative, and like going to galleries, going to spots I've never been before. (has Anyone been to Sherwood Forest ..the BRis one?), i like reading notice boards, writing and poetry festivals ..inspiring! I like wearing red, because it makes me dance faster, and teal blue, because it looks good with my eyes. I'm slim, energetic, and cute-ish. I like reading thoughtful or quirky books etc, like creating gardens and cooking what I grow. Love walking near the water and in the forest. I don't enjoy sailing, swimming in the ocean (estaury swimming is good)

I like men who are happy, but can also appreciate sadness when it's needed. Someone who says what he means, and means what he says. Maybe you are a bit quirky, or at least like to think outside the circle, and are interested and interesting. I'd like to be with a man who may recognise his feelings and tell me how he's feeling so I can be understanding of those; a man who is generous of heart and spirit. I'd like to dance with you..its fine if u r a beginner, i enoy rocknroll and am beginner swing danceer.
Like listening to..Chris Isaac, Sigur Ros, sometimes, just silence, The postal Service, Gary Jules, Animal collective, Elvis, Roy Orbison, Dolly Parton,Augie March
Films i've felt affected by...Milk, Doubt, the Wrestler, In Bruges, Babel, Cohen Brothers films, Disgrace.
Books...The Road,(Cormack MacArthy) Villa Incognito,(tom Robbins) The Accidental Terrorist,(Richard Flanagan) Adventures of an artificial woman, any by Paul Torday, (salmon fishing in the yemen" etc.

Message me to talk and see if we'd like to meet up...friendship, dating, VTPR, all are good.

First meeting...milkshake/ gelato/ coffee and chat, somewhere relaxed.

If we get on well and want to meet again, maybe dinner, perhaps Italian food, get to know you a little, how you feel about thyme....and more... have a little wine, talk, laugh, lets see how we both enjoy the evening.