hello ladies I am london88 and i am looking for you. I am a divorced single father. I was not married to my children's mother, but two of the three children I have produced live with me.
9-7-09
I need to apologize to s, no contact no call not good. but there was no drama and thet is good. I like this site because u can meet good people.





I like being romantic, listening to live music, I like to care. What I mean when I say that is that in my past I have been surrounded by people who dont care about you and they represent every thing that I'm not about. I care about my feelings and therefor I really care about the feelings of others. Heartbreak leaves a seriously bad taste in my mouth and for that reason I have been very contious of the feelings of others.
I'm trying to be as up front as possible to aviod and misunderstandings, I see that everyone wants to live drama free but who knows when drama will occour. i know I'm not leading anyone on and if my phone ringing is any indication I think I'm keeping the drama down.

I was as a child one of those kids who wanted to be president when I was asked what I wanted to be, so since Obama won I have been very interested in political action. This has also led me to the phrase transparency in love. I dont mind living my life like an open book. I am sick of secrets, people emotionally and mentally blackmaleing you because of fear your secret will get out. If I dont have any secrets you cant blackmale, extort or be a racketeer. Ask the painful question and I will tell the truth even if it hurts me to say it. Finally the good part. Well my family business is a beauty supply and a beauty salon. I built literally thse things with blood sweat and tears. But before the family business became into existence, I had graduated from college became an electrician( unrelated to college degree) and had applied my degree towards teaching( psychology). I am very much the student of psychology usually I go by body laguage, facial expression and demeanor instead of what is said. I am very funny or at least to those who I have made a connection with. I can be crass, gregarious, cynical, wise, ambitous and daring. I like a challenging game ( not head games, but chess, scrabble,ect.) I am competative and a good woman to me should be just as challenging.
-
update 6/20/09
I see there are some very particular people here and that is good. some of the ladies I have talked to some no here from. I'm thinking we are all here to find a date, I am. I see some ladies looking and looking at my profile and never saying a thing why not drop a note.

My greatest first date probably included sex. But sex means to me now nothing if you dont care about the other person. so now a great first date would be discovery of me and you. i need to care about you and I need to get the feeling that you can care about me. I didn't say love I said care. so in that vane I think any comfortable atmosphere would definately set the mood for honest conversation leading to discover who I am and what you want and who you are.