I am very outgoing with a youthful playful spirit, I love to laugh but know when to be serious, I am independent but loving and giving, affectionate, open minded, non judgmental, optimistic, loyal, and I believe life only gets better!

I like dancing, music-sometimes loud!!!,camping, hiking , playing baseball, dressing up or wearing shorts, road trips,concerts, spending time with my grown kids, BBQ's, doing anything new, and sometimes I just like quiet and to not have any plans. I like fun people that are real, I love books that teach me something, I have a soft spot for animals and the elderly. I am very versatile and I am happy doing almost anything from high energy activities to cuddling on the couch.

I am attracted to a man that is: Comfortable with himself and knows who he is,has an idea of what he wants in life, has a high level of integrity, is calm and easy going, playful but knows when to be serious,quick witted,is affectionate, kind, family oriented, has eyes and a grin that knocks me off my feet, and a man that has had enough life experiences to know what really matters at the end of the day.

P.S. a quick note on dating 101. I’m traditional when it comes to dating, and for those of you that may need a refresher:

1. You contact/call her at first

2. You ask her out, if she's accepts she's interested (at least in learning more about you)

3. Be consistent...if you’re not, she'll assume you’re not that interested and you'll lose your rank.

4. If she consistently accepts...you’re intriguing her.

5. Make your behavior match your words...she's paying attention and will notice lack of effort.

6. If you aren't following up, don't assume she wasn't interested due to lack of her pursuing you...you just blew it and didn't let her know that you wanted to get to know her better...and she' weeded out the weak for someone that took the time for her! A smart woman knows what level you pursue her tells your interest level.

7. Don’t take it personal if she reads your pursuit level, if she’s o.k. with semi-interest, then she’ll respond in the same manner.

Having some basics keeps it simple, makes things a lot easier than guessing!