I've used various sites like this one and see many of the same people here. How many sites can someone keep up with? There are some new faces here and I hope they might actually want to do something rather than sit at a keyboard typing themselves into a dream world as life passes them by.

Who am I? First, I'm definitely and totally not married. I have a job I go to every day and a lot of responsibilities. Not rich, but financially secure. I don't have credit balances or payments other than utilities. I own all my toys outright. I own my home. Though I spend plenty and am not particularly frugal, I'm just responsible about how I use the stuff.

Values: I'm fairly conservative in my views and opinions. I grew up learning good moral and religious values. They are important to me, but I still won't go to church. I don't attend political rallies either, well, maybe a tea party someday. I thought those were kind of cool. I believe in doing the best you can and working for what you get. I don't lie, cheat, or steal.

Habits and Fetishes: I never have, don't, and never will use illegal drugs. Sometimes I wish "they" would just go and legalize pot. I enjoy nice wines, good beer (I don't consider Bud or Miller good beers), and single barrel whiskeys. I keep a well stocked bar but don't get stupid cleaning it out. Tipsy is cool, I don't enjoy being drunk. I don't smoke all the time but when I have a beer I do. If someone can't tolerate that we are not going to be comfortable together.

What do I like to do? Work less as soon as I can. I probably work too much. I also enjoy taking my boat out or riding my motorcycle. I enjoy renting a cabin for the weekend and just chilling out. I like flea markets and old stuff. I like grilling. I enjoy sitting in my sunroom. I like short bike rides to interesting places like Eureka or the casino. You won't see me riding up to Sturgis, though I might trailer it up there. On the bike I'm a safe and responsible rider. I don't want to scratch the paint or leave my teeth (I have all of them), hair (I have all of it and no I don't color it) or eyeballs (darned bifocals) smeared all over the concrete.

Who am I looking for? Someone that is responsible, intelligent, and knowledgeable that is open to a meaningful relationship. Relationships go through stages where there is an initial attraction of some sort that develops into friendship, followed by increasing commitment that may go "all the way", keeping in mind that any relationships can stop at any point in between. Finding someone to share that journey requires actually meeting face to face to see if there is a possibility of success. We can meet and go from there.

Note: I also lied about my birthday. I don't want these people knowing the exact date. Regardless, it is close enough not to matter.

Lunch, dinner, drinks, something public, whatever you like.