My name is James and I'm 26. I moved out here last year from South Carolina (which I miss a lot). I'm very independent, motivated, honest, laid back, classy, jazzy, funny, trustworthy, and caring..and I guess you'd find out other qualities later. Some things I like to do are travel, dance, go out to eat, chill, play xbox, listen to music (from rap to country, and everything in between depending on my mood), work out (at least three times a week), learn new things, hang out with friends, laugh & joke around, and just whatever seems fun. I'm fairly laid back... I don't mind staying in to watch a movie - I'm definitely not a crazy partier, I only go out sometimes...I don't drink, but I bet I'll dance your butt off, and then some on the floor! I dare you to try me lol.

I have one older sister who is teaching high school spanish. My mom and pops are still together :). I like to go home as much as possible, and spend time with my family and friends.

I'm athletic and try to stay as healthy as I can, and learn about how to live a healthy life, but I'm not obsessive about it. I was in the army for five years, and I carry a ton of good memories, and lessons about life, and I owe a great deal of my career to them plus 3/4 of a degree for free. My job is great. I get a view of Napa, and an airshow everyday. Can't beat that!

OK Ladies! I am not all stuck up, but if I don't write you back I'm just not interested ok. I put hang out because I'm just trying to have fun. If something grows out of a date I won't stop it though ;). I want a friend who is consistent, understanding, FUN, and care free. I like a girl who is loyal, faithful, honest, loving, kind, understanding, attractive, takes care of herself, in shape, has goals, manners, her own things, does not COMPLAIN..that often lol, fun, can cook (you don't have to be a chef, but come onnnnn), has style, and good with children/family. If you fit any of the description let me know!

The first date always has to be interactive. It would start out with something fun like putt putt, bowling, or a festival, and then off to a nice dinner where we could talk, and get to know each other more.