it's hard not to make this sound like some sort of self valdating proclamation. i'm very easy going & tolerating, but not to be mistaken for a push over or by any means blind to the reality of a situation. i'm quick to exit a scenario i find unhealthy and detrimental to my well being with minimal adverse side effects (drama free).


that being said i like a relaxed yet driven man. one that would argue just to play devil's advocate, but isn't easily provoked or judgemental. doesn't have to be driven towards money, but it's incredibly attractive when he puts his heart and soul into something, whether that be work family or any sort of aspirations. i'm fond of things artfully designed to enchant and engage the senses, like craftiness, cooking, even the way one handles interacting and communicating with others. i'm a sucker for a great smile, a commanding presence (great stature/height are a must), overall tasteful quality of being and approach, a gaze that makes me weak in the knees, good/confident sense of humor, and a subtle/simple sort of captivation to a man. i like undercover romantics =] and i love when dudes are good with kids and parents, i was raised to hold and appreciate fabulous manners


physical appearance matters, but you look as good you feel is really what i go by. in my spare time i like to dance, cook, go out on the town... not huge on sports, kind of clueless but if that doesn't bother a guy i'm always up for being a part of the festivities. finished my undergrad in biology, putting some things in perspective at the moment. from here it's medicine, or culinary school... i'm laid back when it comes to religion as well. no preference, Agnosticism may sound like a cop out but i'm pretty set on it...


... i can't swim, seaweed freaks me out (unless it's on my sushi), if it sparkles i'll probably buy it, love getting my hands dirty, i'm a jager red wine and patron drinker, i was blonde once upon a time (initially on accident) for about a year, i have flat feet, it's always peanut butter jelly time here, i can't tell the difference between coke and pepsi and prefer dr. pepper over both and chocolate milk over all of the above, my lasagna is the bomb diggity, i'm sort of clumsy and forgetful, i'm a great driver, love the rain and gloomy days... if i forgot something crucial let me know.


(if you've gotten this far i'm impressed. i tend to be very elaborate in writing for the sake of an accurate first impression, otherwise with less of a hit or miss circumstance and more intriguing ways to sell who i am this ranting is unecessary)...


my taste in music is kind of mainstream, i really just need a good beat. not all that fond of country, maybe just wasn't exposed to it early enough but i can't seem to like it.


last but not least... arrogance, a bad attitude, being quick to judge or engage in drama, impulsiveness, a crude or blunt sense of humor/demeanor, lack of drive motivation or emotion, and inability to control your temper and frame of mind are all huge liabilities so if you exemplify any of these characteristics i urge you to take your clicker and exit my page now... if you've checked your ego anywhere but here, if you're fun, polite, a good balance of sexy and dorky, likeable and agreeable... feel free to say hello =]

Depends on the chemistry between us. If it's somewhat apprehensive we'll talk & get comfortable somewhere with good atmosphere & ambiance, maybe a coffee shop or go for a pizookie. If the vibe's relaxed & fun maybe a little more spontaneous... don't mind dinner and a movie as long as we interact well, the beach is always fresh, go karting, playing with puppies at a pet store, comedy club, museum, or aquarium...