Pretty much, I'm quite busy with work and pursuing the many and worthy things life has placed before me. Please understand I may not be able to respond to all your messages, I really do try. I'm sure things will slow back down soon enough. In the meantime, thanks for your patience.

Hopefully YOU have depth, are fun, funny, kind, smart, authentic, and most importantly a gentlemen (meaning NO Mr. Touchy Feely's!! no cussing like a sailor, and much more, geez who raised those guys). Also if you live outside of Orange County, I don't mind as long as your willing to come this way. Creeps, and freaks not welcome. I'm a nice person spare me. I did put drug free in my filter and somehow a few pot smokers got through. I'm not judging you I simply don't desire to have that around me. By the way, I LOVE wine, in moderation, of course. So if you're dry that's great but wine is one of my many passions and I love to share things I'm passionate about :)

A little about me... I'm pretty sure I'm a just a normal girl, by that I mean I'm not Ms. Fitness, Ms. Happy-go-lucky, Ms. Success, Ms. Betty Crocker and I'm certainly not Ms. Perfect. I'm totally into normal men, likewise, not Mr.Fitness, not Mr. Success, not an illusion of Prince Charming. That being said if you have a picture with your shirt off, I MIGHT not be your girl, however, if you have substance beyond your muscles, car and status, I might. I've been on many a first date where I feel like someone's trying out for a job or worse, a part in a play. Like you've got something to prove. Relax. Be yourself, in moderation if necessary ;), but if we don't have chemistry as we are, it's not a big deal. It IS kind of a big deal when you fall for an illusion of someone. Anyhow, some days I wake up looking like my pictures, somedays worse and some days way better. That's how loving humans goes. Until someone creates life like suitable robots to help pay the bills, take out the trash raise a family and spoon with me, I accept humaness. I strive to find the balance between pursuing wild dreams and existing in a peaceful, content reality. I believe in love and chemistry and passion all in due time, and my time is approaching due! ha... I consider myself your typical Jack-of-all-trades and I'd really like to master some like dancing, food & wine and the fine arts. My friends say I have mastered wine, I work in that industry. It's quite a job! So long as I'm not completely exhausted from my busy schedule I'm up for just about anything, kayaking, hiking, biking (but please don't wear those shorts). I have so much to learn, so much of life I'm excited to live and I'm simply looking for someone to enjoy and experience it all with. So say "hi" (not literally, please say a little more:) I'm actually quite a catch if I do say so myself. Easy going, warm and inviting. I was taught that I am a prize to be won. So win me if you can ;>

By the way, this is the kind of dancing I'm talking about cut and copy; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0doFA0696g

Hmmm... I really like to leave that up to the gentlemen, but a little hint, anything but coffee, unless it's a really swanky coffee shop with great music and a little more than pastries. If you're broke I understand if you're cheap, don't bother... lol. Seriously though.

****I'm not sure I want to go out on any more dates with a pof guys. I am so tired of men asking me to split the tab, I get it, it only takes a few times to ruin it for the real men out there. MAYBE down the road but if you can't pay for a drink or two I'm not your girl. So if "most importantly a gentlemen" seems vague to you, good luck.