Are there ANY REAL men out there,that DON'T play,NO GAMES?????? I don't have any one particular hobby.I enjoy doing a variety of things.I set my standards,& goals,for myself, high.I like to sometimes just relax,listen to music,watch a movie,etc.I especially LOVE listening to music! As for music,I like a variety.But,I especially like dancin to reggae!!Because,I like something you can MOVE with!!But,thenI also like to just move slow,& sen-su-al,with a partner..... I like to spend time with my family,& friends.Altho,sometimes,I like to just have some quiet time to myself,to.LIke,listening to music,& reading a book,or,putting a puzzle together..... I like the outdoors!ESPECIALLY,the BEACHES!!I like,going for quiet,relaxing walks.Especially,in the moonlight!Hand in hand,or,even just side by side.But,I also like to ride bikes!Or,play several different types of sports.&,to anyone who has a question as to my dating preference,here's my answer,"I want to feel,not see.White is to bright.Any questions?lol White boys,please do you,& me a favor,& please don't waste either one of our time by contacting me. I also like to cook/bake.Whatever my man has a taste for.Food satisfaction for me,is,I like to "watch" my man eat,& enjoy his food.I also believe in being there for,& by my man's side,thru whatever.But,if I feel,even while just getting to know the person,that they have more,than both of our best interests in mind,I have NO time for USERS/PLAYERS.Another thing I have ZERO tolerance for,is DRAMA!I say it like this,the ONLY drama I'll have in my life,is the things I create,my-SELF!Which means,there won't be ANY!!Because,I HATE drama!&,therefore,live it a "care-FREE",as possible!

On my first date,I would discuss with that person what we both like to do,&,go from there.I'm open to trying new things.even doing things that are not particularly of interest to me.To try & get to know the other persons interests,as well.But,if I feel that a dude only wants to talk to a chick for the physical,then,I've no words for him.Much less,even,ever,a first date.Because,that's TOO EASY to get from most ANYwhere.Who wants just the ordinary,everyday?