I am not a cancer! I'm a Gemini. Just to let everyone know.

UPDATE 9/4/09: I'm smart. I never mention that so let's get it outta the way to offset my recently meaty appearance that I AM very proud of. As will be my girl. (Fitness, Disclipline. Goals. Career. Achievement. Success. Happiness.) I graduated college on a National Merit Honor Society Scholarship for testing out in the top 1% on the ACT in High School. Meaningless crap from years ago. I never attended a day of class in my life. BORING!

OLDER UPDATE: Yes, I know many women feel shirtless pics are inappropriate for dating sites, even though y'all show off your tiniest bikinis. It's just an experiment I'm trying for fun. Comments are welcomed. I do think they are kinda gay myself... lol

THE CURRENT VOTE ON MY SHIRT OFF PICS IS: 7 YAY! 4 NAY! EMAIL ME YOUR VOTE AND COMMENTARY! 10/31/09 last updated.

WHO I AM: Hi. My name is Eric. I recently moved to the area from Madison, Wisconsin. Go Badgers! I work a lot, like everyone else. I own and operate my biz and it's been quite successful. I'm very energetic, thus I work and play hard. On the weekends, I enjoy activities over sitting around the house. I workout out at the gym often, with my current focus on bodybuilding. I did get into mixed martial arts (UFC-style, also called cage fighting) for a while, but decided I'd rather be a pretty boy than feel and look all beat up all the time... Learn more about me!

HOPES AND DREAMS: I'm still working on how to express myself on this subject. I want it all, of course. The American Dream. Security, fun, and happiness in all aspects of my life. Achievement, yet contentment at the same time. My own family, with the girl of my dreams. Just waking up next to her makes each day feel as if I'm dreaming. Probably children. Don't get me wrong they're just an abstract concept at this point. NO HURRY! Taking the family places, new adventures. Experiences. Enjoying family activities, like boating, or skiing, with them. Living and relearning life thru them. Idk. I just seem to think so. It's kinda distant right now, yet in plain view. Like a beautiful sunset so very far away. It is difficult to grasp or describe. Yet right there in front of me to take in and pursue. Maybe one day I will have that sun, smiling down upon my family as it sets.

WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR: My life is more full. Doing activities together. Growing close. Forming a bond so tight we can be confident in starting the next chapters of our life together, our family. Like the beautiful sunset, only a sunrise. Each day the sun will rise, guiding us towards those epic sunsets later in life.

WHAT I LIKE TO DO: I like outdoor activities. DIY projects. I love to garden, but currently live downtown. The beach. I'm thinking about buying a sewing machine to tailor my own shirts. I like to cook, perhaps for you. I'd probably sip wine while in the kitchen. I eat healthy, most of the time. I like weekend escapes. I like skiing, but have not went in recent years. I can party, but I've been there, done that. Now I'm thinking wholesome. I like learning about stuff. For example, I'll get really in to wine, learn all about it, then move on to something else. Not that big on wine anymore. I only occasionally drink it. Currently I'm into bicycles. I work out a lot, but hate cardio. I play basketball instead. I wish I played sand volleyball, even regular volleyball. I don't know of a league. So that's a little more...

WHO I'M LOOKING FOR: What will she be like? That's wide open, but we'll know when we find each other. She may have similar interests and activities as me, or not. She could be outgoing and aggressive like me, or shy and passive. Either may work best. I can tell you...

WHAT THE RELATIONSHIP WILL BE LIKE: There will be strong initial attraction, sparked by naturally flowing conversation and laughter. Cute nudges and texts. Smiles for no reason. We'll be swept off our feet, and wake up every morning with excitement from the wonderful time we had the night before. We'll each be silently excited about when we'll see each other next. Our friends will notice, and inquire. Excitement that puts a spring in our step, makes us each secretly start thinking about hopes, dreams, and all that could be.... Respect for each other. Honesty. Integrity. Companionship. Us together, combining to be greater than the sum of our individual selves. That's what I'm looking for.

-MAX!

It depends upon what we discussed what we'd appreciate getting together for. It depends upon how well we had already gotten to know one another, and if it's an evening or day date.